Do you agree that if women became a straight man for a month and tried out dating&hookups, they would probably end up in a psych ward?

[Steven8000]

I am saying they would end up in a psych ward because they would realize how EXTREMELY hard, they have it with trying to get success with dating and hookups. It would be the opposite of what they experience.

[Curmudgeon]

YES. In fact, I have shown past dates exactly what it is like "on the other foot" when it comes to dating apps, and they are often taken aback by how desolate it is for most men.

They also begin to understand the "Rule Of Perverse Incentives" when it comes to obnoxious men showing "dick pics" and other such rude actions or comments. After countless days of getting no reply at all, some decide, however wrongly, that doing something and getting a hostile reply is better than nothing! And who knows, they think, maybe she would be tickled that a guy would have the balls to do something so provocative. (This is WRONG nearly always, but that is how the Rule Of Perverse Incentives works).

[Steven8000]

@Curmudgeon women are always told by society that they have it harder with everything so when men bring up things they have it harder with, they do mental gymnastics, etc. Or they are in denial. I sometimes wonder if deep down most women so know they have it easier with dating and hookups

[Steven8000]

And straight men have it EXTREMELY HARD with dating and hookups REGARDLESS if they try online or offline.

[Curmudgeon]

Right. The Femi (commu) nists are lying. Now women DO start having it harder as they age, but for young ladies, the world really IS their oyster. (The Western World anyway)

[Steven8000]

@Curmudgeon and guess what happened recently on here with another post of mine?

[Curmudgeon]

@Steven8000 I saw that. And the male simps who chimed in were even worse.

[Steven8000]

@Curmudgeon yeah totally. Let's be real. It is known that average and ugly guys have it super hard with getting laid when not in a romantic relationship. It is preety known or else there wouldn't be so many straight guys complaining online and offline. Do you think the people that said nonsense to me on the other post deep down know that I am right? I mean one guy thinks he is right just because he is average/ugly and haven't had problems with getting laid and one other guy says he knows some ugly guys that never had a problem with getting laid. So the one guy thinks just listing himself is proof enough and the other guy saying he knows some ugly guys that get laid a lot is proof enough too. And the one girl saying she knows more than a few average guys from college getting laid a lot is proof enough. I have more proof by knowing HUNDREDS and hundreds of guys in person and online in my lifetime that are average or ugly that struggle with getting laid outside of a relationship.

[Curmudgeon]

@Steven8000 But ok, so where do you go from there? I get being pissed off, I get kvetching and complaining about it, but after all that, do what you can to improve you life in other areas.

[Steven8000]

@Curmudgeon listen man. I am asking you a question. Do you agree it is bull what these people are saying they they think it is easy for an average and ugly guy to get laid when not in a relationship, just because they know some people that are average and ugly that have it easy with getting laid? You know it is super hard for averave and ugly guys to get laid when not in a relationship right?

[Curmudgeon]

@Steven8000 "Do you agree it is bull what these people are saying they they think it is easy for an average and ugly guy to get laid when not in a relationship, just because they know some people that are average and ugly that have it easy with getting laid?" - YES, it typically IS bunk.

"You know it is super hard for average and ugly guys to get laid when not in a relationship right?" - Oh, do I ever!

BUT - where do we go from there? The only answer I know to this is to do what you can to improve your life in other areas. I don't know what else to do.

[Steven8000]

@Curmudgeon check your private messages

[Anonymous]

Wow, you are a special kind of idiot. No wonder you are single.

[Steven8000]

Just saying facts.

[Steven8000]

Average and ugly guys struggle with dating and hooking up because they of their looks. Fact. It is not made up that the huge majority of guys that have it easy in those departments are good looking guys.

[Steven8000]

I know it is hard for you to swallow the truth

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Tell me you're an idiot without telling me you're an idiot