No, I would have expected him to have at least tried to kiss me by then or made a move if he didn’t I would make the move myself. Sex I get and I would wait for as I don’t want to rush on first date or seccond but as for moves in general and flirting I don’t want to go on a date with someone who is just like my friend.
If he doesn’t make a move then I will, if he doesn’t like it then I’ll move on
It's not difficult to tell if a guy is shy but really wants to kiss (or do more).
If by the 4th date, I don't see that hungry look at least once, then I'll bring up the topic of ending the romantic situation.
We can be friends if we have overlapping hobbies and amicable strangers if not.
I would if he liked me but was shy, would not if he did not like me.
I wouldn't even bring it up. I'd tell him I'm not interested anymore and move on.
I kissed a guy on our third date who never made any moves to show that it was okay to show affection and then it's like his mind went from 0 to 100 because he immediately wanted to sleep with me. Long story short, I was completely turned off by how fast he went from there. If he had just let the moment be what it was - a kiss - maybe I would still be seeing him 🤷
Now I wouldn't dare make the first move towards a guy who shows disinterest lol.
It depends because if he's the one who initiates to date me 4 times then I would think that he's still interested in me, it just that he's shy but maybe he's just forcing himself to date me if that his reason. I think, I would ask him if he's really interested in me or not because we can stop those dates. Both of us are just wasting our time if we are forcing each other to have fun in those dates. 😅 I hope I answer your question.
It depends if I could tell if he actually had any interest. If he didn't show any the first two there wouldn't be any others. Yet I would wonder if he hadn't had some interest why he would have asked me out except for the free company and conversation. I believe in going Dutch treat so would have paid my own date expenses.
If I was interested in him, I'd talk to him about it. See what his intentions are, but I would also know by the first date if he was super shy or something too.
I usually have a serious talk with a guy at date #6 before proceeding any further and wasting both our time, if things won't work out.
yes I would if i liked him as well
4 days to me isn't that long, things should come naturally, i dont like the preassure and expectations of dating, just be ysf
and i dont understand what you means by "shows interest" cause if he is going on dates w me, thats interest
If I really like the guy and he doesn't make a move, then I will. If he doesn't like me then I'll know and we can both move on. When you want something go for it if nothing else is happening.. if not you both stretch out a long pointless waist of time.. nobody gives you back time don't waste it hoping someone else will always do the first move, you do it if it's not happening.
If he shows no interest. I’m going to assume he’s not interested a d stop wasting my time.
Are men teaching eachother that acting disinterested is how you get a lady?
People don’t usually make a second date without some spark of interest. Nobody wants to waste their time.
Ever girl is diff. Try holing her hand that’s one way to know.
I dumped the guy after the 4th date. I wasn’t interested. I know he was and didn’t want to hurt his feelings more.
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