Girls, When you are interested in a boy do you treat him differently?

Question

Lets say for example you are a very extroverted person.
You talk with a lot of people, and joke around with a lot of people..
What if you liked a boy at work... would you treat him the same?
Or would you be a little more shy around him? Or not sure how to approach him?

I am just curious how girls treat guys they are into
especially guys they don't know particularly well
Perhaps have only had a couple of short conversations

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

Well I now realize that there are way more “guys w/ pink accounts” than I thought. Yes we treat guys we are interested in differently. Don’t you guy’s treat girls differently if you are into them? But it’s a bad idea to date guys we meet at work. For one thing, if it doesn’t work out, we loose the guy, and possibly the job. (Who wants to work with their ex every day?)
yes, personally I would be a little more shy around him, because I don’t want to mess up in front of him and risk looking stupid in front of him. Personally I am flirty. I’m more likely to look at you a little bit longer that others. Maybe I’ll always make eye contact with a guy I like. Pay more attention to him. Find ways to touch him in work-appropriate way. A tap or a pat on the shoulder, if he hands me something or vice versa lightly touching his fingers as i take it. But every girl is different in how we behave around guys we like. There is no ONE WAY that we act. She will treat you differently than she treats all the other guys at work. So if she is super friendly around the other guys, maybe she will be a little more “standoffish” with you. So look for the differences in the way she treats you. Good luck.

Pleaznhim4me · Accepted Answer

They will usually act the same with the guy they like to test the water. Then they may playfully tease the guy. Make fun of him. Touch him while talking. Ask him to hold her stuff. Etc. switch social media contacts or phone number. If she is shy she may get shy around you and whisper with her friends and stare at you when you aren’t looking and then when you look at her she looks away. This is when you have to do something to show her you like her and you are fun and safe. Take her for a walk and show her stupid things that you know about. Or have her watch funny til Tik Toks with you. Ask her about herself. Compliment a piece of jewelry of hers or an attribute of hers. But not boobs!

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Sometimes I’m shy but shyness is not a sign of interest, just fear. I’ve liked guys where I was shy and I’ve liked guys where I was not shy.

Anonymous · Answer

I completely agree with @crazygirl2
I was like this with a boy at work.

He was type to get all the girls, and all the girls liked him and such. At the time I was inexperienced, never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss or anything at all. I was turned down when I was a younger by guys, so therefore I was afraid of it happening with my crush at work. I thought he’d too turn me down and ridicule me. I was maybe 21 and my crush was maybe 23. I remember he’d stare all the time and that he’d possibly like me but I didn’t believe it due to past experiences. After a while of noticing that he’d blush at me, and I too would blush at him. It was clear as day that were both attracted to eachother. Except I never approached him due to my inexperience and insecurities. He probably noticed it as well. I believe girls would talk to him with ease and I just couldn’t do it. I was too shy and too nervous and too injured to do it. GOOD LUCK OUT THERE. <3

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I can't say I treat him differently but I notice him more, go out of my way to talk to him more, be friendly or flirty with him more.

I guess that means I do treat him differently in the end as I wouldn't do that for others.

nova94 · Answer

If I'm into a guy, I would be more talkative and flirty with him to see if he potentially feels the same. I would also probably try to get close or find an excuse to hang out whether it's in a group setting or not just to the gage how me might feel about me

Dojaphat456 · Answer

Yes exactly I'd be wayyy too shy to even talk to him mostly. But I've learned that's a red flag anyway

FelicityChi · Answer

Yeah... Lol If I like a guy, I treat him like I dont.

MelonSoda · Answer

Nope, I still treat him like one of the boys, just with hugs and occasional gifts included.

DesiUwU · Answer

Nope, I just hang out with him as much as possible.

HimaniS · Answer

Well if I like a guy I wouldn't be shy around him. Also, I will treat him the same way as everyone so there will be no difference in how I treat others.

bellagirlie · Answer

Most often yes, I tend to ask about said person's interests, agree with them more, and send them posts that remind me of them

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Every girl is different

XXblack88 · Answer

I'm not sure

Sorue · Answer

Yes I stutter.

Lee1515 · Answer

yes i do aver time

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