Girls, When a guy shows interest in you, what usually makes you not consider him?

[Anonymous]

I just didn’t feel physical attraction.

He didn’t stand out from other guys.

I was already focused on someone else.

I usually give most guys a fair chance.

Updates

7 mo

The results say it all: 57% of women reject a guy just because they aren’t instantly attracted. Only 43% even consider giving most guys a fair chance. That shows most women have no empathy and only care about looks.
This is exactly why they say they “can’t find a good guy” .
Because they ignore them. And it’s why good guys get overlooked every day.

[Abbycado]

If single, it depends on other circumstances than what you list. In general, I’d give someone a chance.

[Asker]

What other circumstances?

[Abbycado]

I’ll give an example. My boyfriend in high school was a year older. He graduated and went off to college in the fall.

We broke up out of necessity. It wasn’t going to work. It was amicable and the right choice. Now I was single with one year left.

What would be the point of dating someone during that last year to have to go through a highly likely breakup again when I went to school A and he chooses school B?

So, that is what I mean by circumstances. Things like that. I was asked out a lot during my senior year but didn’t want to get involved just to see it fall apart when the year ended.

[Asker]

So you turned down a bunch of good guys just because of what might happen?

That’s a lot of missed chances for something real.
If it were me, I’d make that one year feel like it mattered.

[Abbycado]

Lmao. Missed chances? For what? Another breakup and heartbreak? I learned my lesson one time. I don’t often make the same mistake twice.

I waited a year, went to school and met someone that I’ve now been with since last August. I’m perfectly happy with my decision.

[Asker]

Fair enough… but sometimes the best love stories are the ones that break your rules. Just saying, you might’ve missed your plot twist.

[Abbycado]

It’s like you think I owed this to someone. Smh.

[Asker]

You didn’t owe anyone, But sometimes the best kind of tension is the kind you never planned for. Maybe one of those guys would’ve made you wish that year never ended.

[Abbycado]

Your update is utterly pathetic like we owe you something. Muted.

[Chartreux]

If I don’t feel attracted or he’a rude