Girls, Why would you act disinterested towards a guy, when you actually like him?

[Anonymous]

You act like you don't give a damn about him. But you put yourself in situations where the guy could approach you to start talking to them. The reason I ask is my co- worker who is a lady was talking to me normally and we clicked really well. Now she seems to act a bit weird towards me like she is nervous. So acts like she doesn't give a damn about me. But then we still chat

[antelope51]

If it's a work environment, there are all kinds of rules that get in the way. Granted, I met my S. O. 20 years ago in a work class, but we started chatting via personal email outside of work, and didn't work in the same department, much less town, so we decided to take it the next step. I feel like we *might* have told H. R? Or maybe they just figured it out when our addresses got combined and became the other's emergency contact. *shrug* But if you work together on a daily basis, that can be problematic on many levels, so it's probably best to just curb the weird vibe and think of her like the old lady from accounting and not someone you'd like to bang at lunch hour.