Why do you girls become more interested in a guy if he ignores/becomes uninterested in you?

[Anonymous]

So I just recently finally got rid of all my acne and I guess I'm kind of hot now. And of course with all the extra female attention I'm starting to regain my confidence. But at first I still didn't have much success with girls even if they were attracted to me initially. I guess I seemed a little desperate since I'm new to this or something I don't know. But once I would get a girls number and started talking to them they would start playing games and ignoring my texts or just taking days to respond. These girls were all pretty attractive and could probably get any guy they wanted so maybe that's why but still...rude as fuck.

But I've gotten smarter and more confident now so I started doing the same thing and it works like a charm. Some of the same girls that were ignoring me or taking forever to respond are now hitting me up all the time and I'm barely showing any interest in them at all. It's crazy how you girls seem to love it when a guy doesn't treat you like a princess. Disney movies are definitely a lie.

So don't blame us guys and call us assholes for not treating you nice because we are being exactly what you want us to be. Whether you realize it or not.

So here's some advice to guys on this site:

The less you try the more she will want you.

P.S. I'm sure not all girls are like this but all the really attractive ones that I tried being nice with abused me.

[udolipixie]

Why do you girls become more interested in a guy if he ignores/becomes uninterested in you?
Likely the same reason guys become more interested in a gal if she ignores/becomes uninterested in him. There's plenty of guys whining about gals that don't even know he exists or only sees him as a friend. The reason for that is I find people generally want what is hard to get or what they can't get.

"So don't blame us guys and call us assholes for not treating you nice because we are being exactly what you want us to be. "
Egh no...in my opinion you're responsible for you own behavior. As well as just because some gals want a-holes doesn't necessarily mean it applies to the general female population. I've known many gals that are more successful with guys being selfish b*tchy gold diggers however that doesn't necessarily mean they're being exactly what guys want them to be.

It's always amusing to me how often guys try to blame shift their 'bad' behavior onto gals.

[Anonymous]

ughhhh all this stuff honestly gives me a headache and heartrate goes up...theres so many rules..like dont be too nice, dont treat her like a princess, you got to have game, u gotta ignore her, etc like its just too much. why can't 2 normal people just meet, have a good conversation, exchange contact information, get to know each other and then go out on a date. why do both men and women overcomplicate things for themselves? im just gonna give u my opinion, and from my experience, the more rules u try to give yourself and follow stereotypes, the less successful your future marriage is gonna be.

[SweetTeaGirl]

yes.

[Deft_maiden]

I don't. I am not sure what type of girls do. He must be showing some kind of green light.

[Asker]

Like I said all girls probably don't do this but the ones that do ruin guys for most of the female population

[Anonymous]

I use to but than I grew up and built up self-respect.

[Anonymous]

It's called game. A lot of guys do it. It's like a psychological back door kind of thing. You make a need for her to contact you, make her realize she misses you. People, not just girls, tend to value things more if they're missing for some time. So if a guys ignores a girl, he creates this need that the girl instinctively tries to fulfill. Plus girls are less likely to go out with guys that are all over them because they get their bf experience without the physical intimacy. (Just saying, I'm a psych student and sometimes I think the professor was a pimp before coming to teach)

[ThreeIn]

The ones that do are kinda suckers yo. I know it happens to a lot of girls and they can't really help it, but man, y'all need to grow up.

[Asker]

Just play along if they do and you'll have way more fun. You don't even have to try

[ThreeIn]

I don't like games, its kid shit.

[ixi10]

I don't. If someone ignored me, I'm moving on

[Anonymous]

It's reverse psychology and a mind screw

[naima17]

They like to chase or not to be clinged to men