Gold digger does not equal traditional. Also you have to realize generally the idea of a gold digger is the woman goes out of her way to be the pinnacle of the perfect female and so she expects extra financial considerations for being so excellent. Its not often as one sided as many people say. Its usually just when women aren't clear or if they take an entitled or abusive attitude about it, is it not a winning proposition for a man.
When im 55 if i have to keep a woman kept to get a 21 year old hottie with low body count then ill gladly take that deal over a lumpy 43 yo divorcee with 3 other dudes kids. Thats just not acceptable.
Now its not about paying... id never in the world agree to give a girl a certain allowance like pay to play. Fuck that. But thats what lots of losers that get played do. The money comes after a relationship is cemented and it remains in the mans control. Now we are talking about more traditional relationship vs some gold digger sugar daddy nonsense.
If you mean gold digger as in she just dates well off men. Props. That is ideal. I dont want a girl who is dating or banging losers before she meets me. Sick. She will cheat with the pool boy because she has no standards.
Just some thoughts a well off man who has a stay at home girlfriend has.
What I know is that if I was a woman I would be a gold digger, I see nothing morally apprehensible about it. We all grind and sell our time in one way or another, if you were dealt a hand that you can use your looks to get ahead, you fucking do it. Don't let anyone stop you. Life isn't fair you gotta use every advantage you get. You think those fucks in CEO positions aren't exploiting all their workers? Grow the fuck up. Ain't nothing wrong with a gold digger in principle. In action it can be good or bad, like most things, even CEOs.
My mother was a gold digger and she’s more hateful than Fidel Castro - angry and wrathful at me and my dad every time we are alone together and I fantasize every day about saying bad things about her at her funeral.
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When I was in my 20's and 30's I never wanted a gold digger, but my first ex was definitely one, my 2nd was less of one and more independent.
These days, as I have no plans to ever get married again, I have no issues with having a nice girlfriend who I know only wants me for my money but she knows I only want her for her body. It works out I guess, we both have something the other wants.
What is interesting is how things can change though, our last time together she told me she wanted more. Still not sure what she means by that, I think she might be actually falling for me... weird.
I'm not attractive. But after 40+ years. Of living and no women to siphon off my wealth I now have considerable assets. It's not that I like gold diggers but it's inevitable that I attract them. I don't hate them I just find them entertaining. Because they think their feminine wiles have an effect on me. So I play the game I entertain them, they give of themselves freely, and they think there's going to be a payday at the end. Eventually they figure out they're wasting their time and leave and I have a good laugh. You know it's true what they say. Life really does begin at 40.
To me, "Gold digger" implies being deceptive -- pretending romantic interest to obtain goods and services, but avoiding intimacy. If a woman says "If you take me to , I'll sleep with you", she's not a gold digger. She's just being honest. Not a problem, assuming she follows through.
I don’t know why but I found it funny that all the pictures are women with plates of food in front of them. Like muahahaha I shall use all your money so I can have unlimited crab cakes. All mine get to work but me food!
I don't know what guy in their right mind would like gold diggers. That's like a woman who likes players, knowing that she wouldn't get anything in return from them at all.
Of course they do.
Many men strive to be competitive and many want arm candy.
It's a win win...
I keep my economy hidden for a reason, I don't want a parasite. In my view only my kids should be dependent on my economy. Not my partner. She is an adult and should be fully capable on her own.
Gold diggers are losers and washed up skanks. Male or female.
Are you new to this site cause I swear I've lost count of the amount of posts, responses and mytakes I've seen guys write about hating gold diggers.
Naturally everyone wants to be loved for who they are, not for their money.
Think you need to translate this question to a sugar baby and sugar daddy audience... Some people enjoy this relationship and honestly narrow minded to shame people for their preferences.
No, and it's usually very easy to quickly weed out who is a gold digger.
Not at all , there is no connection what so ever if she is only after my wallet
They are hot. You can always dump them and find another hotter girl anytime.
Let's face it. If I can afford a Lamborghini, then I am not going to drive a $500 bomb.
I'm glad you chose those photos, because not a single one of those women are attractive. Every one of them is a plastic composite. LOL I wouldn't look twice at them no matter how much money I have.
I do NOT want golddiggers around me. If you want money so badly, get a real job and earn that money the right way---honestly, legitimately, and respectably.
All heauxs are gold diggers, it's just the hotter ones are more open about it because they have so many options
Every girl I’ve dated has paid her fair share. I don’t mind treating a girl I really care about but it still has to be fair
I spend too much myself to keep a gold digger on the lifestyle they're accustomed to
NO!! I fucking HATE `EM!! I nearly married one!! NEVER AGAIN!!
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