Girls and guys do you have a gold digger mindset?

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JDAC092299 · Accepted Answer

Wouldn’t say I’m a gold digger but money has an impact on the relationship, I wouldn’t be comfortable with a woman who earned vastly more than me as I like to be somewhat equal on the money side of things as I know that money often comes with control in a relationship. You can’t have much of a say in anything if your partner is paying for everything that’s just how it is. I also wouldn’t like to be earning vastly more than my partner because again I wouldn’t like to have the final say all the time. And hey if that’s not enough hassle there’s also society sticking its nose in to judge either of you when that fact is noticed. Men are looked down upon as worthless and the women are looked down upon as gold diggers so neither of you can win unless you don’t gaf about peoples opinions I guess but still I feel like you can’t grow with someone who’s content with earning a lot less than you and that causes it’s own problems. So yeah not a gold digger but money is a factor and ignoring that fact will see to it that your relationship is ultimately short lived.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

No thank you, I do Platinum rather than gold.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I’ve also seen this in men a lot more too. Women seem to prioritise love as without that any superficial benefits aren’t worth it. Whereas I know about 3 guys who have more of a gold digger mindset. One married a woman who earns more than another one he loved but earns less. One has proposed to a girl he doesn’t love because he’s able to emigrate to a more desirable destination on her visa. Another is wooing a woman because she’s financially set and he’s always wanting more money. Yep, I’m my experience it’s the men who are more I to faking relationships for the materialistic gains.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Yeah, but I’m digging it from the companies of America by clocking in.

It’s a bittersweet/ love-hate relationship.

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If I date someone who fuels and funds the company I work for. I can’t help that?

small world? 😂

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I met more male gold diggers than female ones. Woman are willing to work hard to get a rich guy while a lot of male gold diggers want to work part time at the library while marrying a rich surgeon who works 5 times harder than themselves. I had somebody try to gold dig me a few years ago when I said God came to me in a dream and told me I'd go to Harvard.

Anonymous · Answer

personally i wanna find someone who can support me. if you can afford wifi and groceries so i can cook for us, the place we live at (doesn’t have to be fancy), my phone bill, and any kids we pop out im a loyal women who wants to be with you. i don’t need expensive clothes and jewlery tho so I don't know if i’m a gold digger or not

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No! I'd LOVE to be a filthy rich multi-billionaire but NOT out of greed!! I'm just so tired of ALWAYS being poor!! Money doesn't exactly mean that much to me. I mean, if I WAS that rich, I'd think nothing of giving loads of it away to people that really need it!! I've already found myself dirt poor, I'd just spent the previous 45:00 or so scouring the mall parking lot and drive-thru windows for loose change so I could buy SOMETHING to eat and, while in line waiting to pay for my food in the store, a woman in front of me discovered she didn't have enough on her to pay her tab and I was more than willing to pay it for her until I realized, I only have about $2.00 in loose change to my name!!

Red-Blaze · Answer

I dont at all, I see moent as something that is a tool comes and go
I work in a job becouse its more intresting then outher, even that I can be paid sooo much more if I really wanted to, I am taking it slow, and keep it in intresting more then how much ai get for it

FreyaRed · Answer

No, I'm a wracking ball in shape of a heart breaker.
There are two type of gold digger types. The one who is cold calculated but can pretend to be loving and caring while being psychologically and physically very attractive. Another is playful, filled with naive positivity, a little silly but sympathetic person who is deep inside calculated and exploits weaknesses those who come to close.

4ngelic · Answer

not exactly gold digger but would rather not be seriously with someone who's less rich than me if it's possible we'll end up marrying each other or/and having kids. that might sound bad but if we're being real honest if one of the people in a relationship is poor and you get to a stage we're you live together or have kids it's kinda of a problem

menina · Answer

No, not at all. I hate gold diggers regardless of their gender. We should all work hard to provide for ourselves.

LickwidSkie · Answer

I don't care if she she makes good money as long as she has an income. As long as she can make a reasonable contribution to our finances it's fine. I really wouldn't mind completely supporting her, but I don't have enough money for that.

Anonymous · Answer

i just want to live comfortably enough that i don't need to worry about rent/bills and have enough left over for savings and looking after my family, whether that's with a partner or not

That_One_Guy__ · Answer

I'm definitely not a gold digger, but when a woman has a high paying job I am more likely to consider a long term relationship. Not for the money, but because it shows that she is intelligent, hard working, and isn't very gold digger herself. I would however br less likely to date a girl who works at McDonald's, but then again I am 32. When I was younger it really didn't matter. But now I need to consider my future and how she can contribute to the relationship.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not at all , I do prefer a girl to have her shit together and be a worker that can fend for herself but she doesn’t have to be rich , I want a partner not a mooch

Alaskan_123 · Answer

I do not have a gold digger mindset, mostly because one woman said she regrets marrying for money. And my aunt married a broke man, now they live in a mansion and own 2 separate businesses.

CreatingWonders · Answer

No, I even hate it when someone buys me a gift as I feel obligated to now return the favour.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i love money but i always prioritize love over money

Anonymous · Answer

You can't ask this question and expect to get honest answers from women. Women know they have earned a bad reputation as gold diggers so they're not going to answer yes and acknowledge how bad they are.

Anonymous · Answer

All I can say is if anyone wants to chase me for money, I wish them luck, since I’m unemployed. It’s laughable.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t have the mindset but if they are rich I can’t tell him to burn the money so I fulfill the “Mindset”

AsaKyo · Answer

Eh, no because I could just make my own money

Anonymous · Answer

I care less about the money she has and more about her views on money. How she spends it. I'm a thrifty guy. If she isn't cut from the same cloth as me there it's not going to work out.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I want my partner to afford himself just like I afford myself.

BrookeS · Answer

Don’t stick around long enough to have one

peedy · Answer

Maybe I was I a previous life because I've had dreams that I was a 49er

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, I have my own money.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

No. I've earned everything I have.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. Don't need it.

SweetTwistedSatanist · Answer

I only care about my own gold.

noohair · Answer

Any woman that answered yes is lying.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

All women have gold digger mindset.

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

Hell no. I make my own money.

Lynn2001 · Answer

No id rather be richer than him

Anonymous · Answer

im a gold digger to myself

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Yes.

FeminineHSP · Answer

Nope.

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