How do you stop thinking that any cute or attractive girls in real life don't automatically like you? Also, how do I meet more girls?

[poneglyphs]

I have this big problem where, whenever I see a cute girl I rarely ever flirt with them because I just think that they don't want to know me or like me? Whenever I get their number they rarely ever text me back or respond even though we had a great conversation and thought she was genuinely interested in me. But then after a while I stop talking to them. Does anyone else have this problem or is it just me? 🥺🥺🥺

[NathanDavis]

I think you should ask yourself something here...

would you ever show any interest or care on a woman that you do NOT find cute nor attractive, but she gave you a very good and interesting conversation, would you genuinely be interested on pursuing more with her, get to know her... and maybe try for more ALTHOUGH she is not particularly attractive or cute

if your answer is yes... then, maybe you can try to skip all the cute, hot, and attractive girls for a while and try with the ones that have good conversations and give you a good time, besides the looks and body attraction

if your answer is no... you would not do this, then why would you expect for women to do this for you, that would be kind of entitled and also naive

[Avicenna]

Id suggest doing this: if you see a woman you find interesting, talk to her. Don’t just go on looks, and don’t worry about what happens, just enjoy talking to her.

[poneglyphs]

Hmmm okay sounds reasonable

[Avicenna]

Thanks for the mho

[SenileOldMan]

How are they supposed to like you if you don't do anything? That's like Brad Pitt stuff level of godliness unless you are showcasing a world-class talent.

[SenileOldMan]

Lead more is my thought. Command the social vibe. Command the entire party. Become king of the party. There's not much room to guess if you do it right. Some people will hate you but the girls who stick around worship you.

[poneglyphs]

What do you mean I don't do anything? I go out sometimes and cook.

[SenileOldMan]

Oh sorry, I got kinda drunk yesterday and lost my mind again. I could have communicated that way better! I think in your case it might help just to follow through if you're concluding that girls don't like you before they actually reject you.

[Fuentes]

Grow some hair on ur face and get contacts

[poneglyphs]

I sadly can't grow any hair for the life of me. I'm too dumb for contacts. First pair I had I lost them in a day 😅😅😅😅

[Fuentes]

Damn if u can look into prk or lazic and damn that sucks growing no facial hair

[poneglyphs]

Lasik os too expensive dude. Oh well I guess

[Fuentes]

U can actually finance it and lay into it

[Fuentes]

Pay*