How to stop caring whether girls like me or not?

[Anonimmm]

I know girls are more attracted to guys that dont care that much if he s with them or not, so I thought I ll not be ghosted that often.

How can I become less attached to the outcome of talking with girls?

[Oliverlogan263]

I feel ya man, it's always tough not caring what girls think. But it is kinda true - playing it cool works better than coming on too strong.

Few things that help me stay chill:

1) Remind yourself their answer has nothing to do with your worth. Some girls just aren't into you and that's cool.

2) Keep yourself busy - have hobbies, hang with the boys, hit the gym. Can't obsess as much if you stay occupied.

3) Talk to multiple girls at once. Takes the pressure off any one person.

4) Fake it til you make it. Even if you're nervous, act calm and confident on the outside.

5) Remember your goals - are you trying to get married right now? Probably not. So who cares if a text doesn't go your way.

6) Change your mindset - talk to girls to get to know them as people, not just for dating. Takes the stakes down.

It'll take practice but you'll get better at not letting rejections bug you. Stay strong bro!

[Anime_person]

If its a case of self-consciousness, try staring at yourself in the mirror for five minutes a day. This helps me as it helps you realise that the body you have is you and no one will take your self pride away.

[Yesdarlingmoon]

Self acceptance

[Yesdarlingmoon]

And most of us aren't attracted to those who 'play it cool' just find better girls! Be yourself.