Why do girls like me now when I don’t give a care about them?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I are long distance. And I’ve been noticing girls giving me flirty looks. But back then, I never got the time of day with them. So now I just ignore them. It’s like they can sense I’m happy without them. Like this is the biggest problem with modern dating in America. Too many women with egos. And when it’s too late, every guy they like is taken. Is that it? Also, I haven’t told my girlfriend, because they don’t matter, and I don’t want to purposely make her jealous/bloating about getting flirtatious advances.

[serious]

Okay so what is the issue here. You are already handling the situation well, it does not matter if other girls like you or not what matters here is that you are in a relationship and do you have any attraction towards other women or not.

From what you have written it is clear you don't care about that so then it does not matter.

However, what I would suggest you should tell you girlfriend that you get flirty looks from girls but it does not matter to you in any way and that you only love her (your girlfriend).

[war_daddy]

you are stupid. pick a local girl. long distance is for retards

[Kayla45]

Sometimes by not caring, guys give off a bad boy vibe, can be seen as attractive.

[Kelley1]

It is all in your mind because you are delusional.

[Asker]

Like saying you’re nice. That’s seems delusional

[Kelley1]

It is whatever it is. I gave my opinion but I am not always right; just most of the time.

[avery58]

Do they know you have a girlfriend?

[Nikki1989]

What in the F is a flirty look?