How do you stop caring about what people think (like how do you stop caring about if people like you or find you attractive)?

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Paolaa988 · Accepted Answer

Its taken me quite some time but for me i try to have thick skin and realize not everyone in life will find me attractive, pretty, cute, or hot. To some guys and people they may find us appealing and others will just try to bring us down and point out our flaws or whatever but it's all about self love and having that strength of confidence even if someone tries to bring you down. Im a curvy girl, i know im not every guys type i already know but my motto is if they don't like me, guy, girl, teenager, whoever that they don't have to look my way and as long as you know in your heart you are worthy and beautiful then the less cruelty will get to you. High school and middle school was tough for me because a lot of boys didn't want me and it wasn't till 20 i felt more confident and embraced my beauty naturally, starting exercising more, taking care of my skin and doing what makes me feel beautiful and once my confidence got in, it wasn't hurting me so much of their rudeness and bullying. And remember girl confidence is also within not just on the outside☺ meditations, podcasts, exercise, and music have helped me as well.

Ally247 · Accepted Answer

It’s not necessarily about loving who you are, because that’s hard so don’t beat yourself up about it. It’s just about accepting who you are. Realise that you are who you are, you are the only person in the world who will consistently always be there for you, and cut yourself some slack. If you find yourself saying something hurtful to yourself, ask yourself if you’d say it to a friend. When we look at others we never start focusing on all the things we hate, so why do it to yourself? Plus, you are the only you in this world, embrace it all.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

What you find yourself and like yourself really nothing else matters you can only be you so smile and be the best of you because no matter what in life it was going to have somebody that doesn't think you're cute that doesn't like you who cares you have 10 times more people that think you're cute and like you once you like yourself

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

You need artificial narcissism.

As in convince yourself that what they say don't matter because they're not better than you and are lucky to be in your presence

Don't show it because people don't like that but it will help you look act and eventually feel more confident about who you are and what you do

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Just think this way if you love yourself, don't worry what others think of you
I experience the same things and I don't care what people think of me and
what my physical appearances and if they say mean things about me or
whatever I just ignore them and move on

RCLJT · Answer

You just have to say enough is enough. Go to Walmart, you’ll see hundreds of people that don’t give a shit what you think about how they look, how they dress or how they smell. Seriously, life isn’t a popularity contest, it’s your life, live it how you want, not to the demands or expectations of others.

LebanonYassmeene · Answer

Once you stop judging yourself you'll stop caring about how others see you..

The problem with us caring about how others see us is because we think others think the same way we see or think we are seeing in ourselves.

Jjpayne · Answer

You need to find your center. I'd say meditation and read a self confidence book And please click on this link and look around for free self help books

COMMODOREII · Answer

Listen to your friends. Like me. 😄 Wassup J!! 😋

exitseven · Answer

I don't know. I was always this way. I never had many friends and most of the time I couldn't care less.

Ripper_E · Answer

I just don't. I live my life how I want. People live theirs.

hela1110 · Answer

U have to be 100% sure that u r attractive... And u have to be confident

bannacookies · Answer

By pushing your limit & be comfortable with being uncomfortable. It's confusing, I know.

Laciandmaci · Answer

Just don't give a crap what they think!

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Don't give a shit. Do whatever you want to do

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