What do you do when your stuck between two guys?

[Anonymous]

I usually give up.
I have hard feelings for two guys. Im not playing head games or screwing both before anyone starts their shit.

[4afriend]

If they don't know each other then it's today's dating scene. If they are friends or co workers or something it's left or right Twix. It would need a decision from you. Even if it's neither one, so u aren't leading on. Or if it's physical it might be a party 🥳 feelings and attraction are very different.
Or, maybe see who is willing to stick it out and who will move on
Don't feel pressured

[Asker]

I could never be with both at them at the same time im just not that way. Blake has been in my life for years but id have to be 45 mins from home to spend time with him. Cody lives close and hasn't been in my life very long. Of course I'm weighing in several other factors.

[MrCommodore]

It depends on the scenario, specifically what you like and don't like about both. Think about which one would you miss the most if he was removed from your life.

[Asker]

Thats a good way to look at it. Definitely hard choice

[MrCommodore]

Usually we only fall in love with one person, if you like both, perhaps you don't love either of them.

[Asker]

I dont love either. I just have strong feelings

[dustybiker]

Write a very blunt list of pros and cons for yourself.

[Asker]

Thank you ill give it a shot

[dustybiker]

Good luck.