Talking, dating two guys? What do I do now?

[Anonymous]

Well I never thought I’d be in this situation. I am currently talking With 2 guys.
guy a I met first- we meet on a dating all really clicked right away and I like him but I’m not sure what he wants. We have hung out a few times. I’m slightly worried about his intentions as we’ve only hung out at my place at night.
guy b- also meet on a dating app. We got drinks right away and things went great and we had a good time. Went back to his place for some games and one thing led to another….
My question is am I in the wrong? I don’t know what to do. I don’t like talking/dating two people because of this. I do like both and want to see where it goes with both of them but I feel guilty. Do I tell them? Do I ask them what they are really looking for? I definitely don’t want to sleep with either of them again until I figure this out. Help help help

[Anonymous]

You’re worried about guy A’s intentions of only wanting to have sex, but then you go back to Guy B’s place and have sex with him?

Was he just smoother at getting into your pants or something than the other guy? Did you like him better because you went to HIS place instead of Guy A wanting to hang with you at your place?

My question is am I in the wrong? I don’t know what to do. I don’t like talking/dating two people because of this. I do like both and want to see where it goes with both of them but I feel guilty. Do I tell them? Do I ask them what they are really looking for? I definitely don’t want to sleep with either of them again until I figure this out. Help help help”

Well. I don’t know why you’d feel guilty. You’re not in a committed relationship with either guy. You’re free to sleep around with whomever you want, whenever you want. When I’m first dating a woman I sort of assume she is dating and fucking other guys than me. Why should I assume otherwise? She’s a grown ass woman and we aren’t committed yet. Of course I don’t like to think about this, especially if I really like the woman a lot, I mean you don’t want to get your hopes up. And yes I’ve gone on dates with women on Tinder who told me I was a “great guy” (bullshit) but that they were also dating someone else and decided to settle on them instead. It was whatever. But this has happened to me on more than one occasion with women. You always end up feeling like a sucker and that you got used.

But hey, that’s dating. Lots of women play the field. God the whole plot of that stupid movie “Twilight” was about a young woman who wanted her cake and to eat it too—she wanted some werewolf boy with abs, or some sophisticated handsome vampire. Oh darn! I’ve got to choose! Help help help

Just fuck them both if you enjoy their company. But eventually they ARE going to want to know if you’re fucking other guys. Hopefully in the meantime you have fun and experience many orgasms and eventually you’ll pick one. Or just get rid of them both and start seeing some other guy. Fuck it.

[Adam1978]

You are really in the wrong from the start, you simply don't sleep around if you want a steady relationship. Because you are directly unfaithful since you sleep with both. So you are off on a bad start and will most likely not keep either, independent of you making a choice. You are for the streets and you made that choice.

[one1wild00]

Either see if they are cool with you dating both, or Step up and make a choice.