Hooked up with a guy, while I'm 'talking' to someone else?

[Anonymous]

By talking, I mean like starting to see/date. It had only been a few days in, but I hooked up with a different guy. The guy I'm 'talking' to, is the type that would be good for a relationship. He's cute, but not a guy that I'm always trying to f***. All of my ex's before, were extremely attractive. So I get the emotional side from him, but I want the physical side from someone else. The guy I hooked up with, is pretty hot and extremely popular. He's the type I would date if I was looking for a 'social status relationship.' is it wrong that I hooked up with this guy?

[udolipixie]

1. Hooked up with a guy, while I'm 'talking' to someone else? Unless talking obligates you to a monogamous relationship I'm not seeing a problem.

2. is it wrong that I hooked up with this guy? Depends on who you ask. Not wrong to me.

"So I get the emotional side from him, but I want the physical side from someone else"

This is a problem unless the guy you're talking to is up for an open relationship. While it's difficult for most girls try to get a guy you're physically/sexually attracted to who can fill the emotional side.

[DrPain]

If you're not physically attracted to the guy your talking to then you should probably just be with the other guy. It seems like you want 2 different things here. If you're attracted to the guy you're talking to then just stay with him, you guys could both things you want to. But also what's there to say the popular jock guy doesn't have an emotional side either?

[Asker]

He does. He can be a really nice guy, but usually with guys that can get p**** without committing to one, they're most likely not gonna tie themselves down.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Technically no it isn't since you two arn't together, but at the same time it's still pretty f***ed up if your really planning to get into this relationship with this guy. if your not really physically interested in him. Besides if you really were interested in him you would have waited it out first but you didn't so...yeah.

[zachg]

if you've been out with this guy and are clearly in a relationship with him it still counts as cheating. so yes, and don't assume someone that's good boyfriend material will sit around while you cheat on him. not all guys are pushovers

[Anonymous]

Let him know, and let him decided