Talking to other guys while in a relationship?

[leolabrit]

I is cheating when you talk to other guys(as friends) while you are in a relationship. Or are the only people you should be allowed to talk to family and girlfriends?

[kkandbb]

Yeah I know exactly what you mean. I think our bfs are concerned about why the guys are friends with us. You're pretty and my boyfriend thinks I am too (lol see what I did there ;P) SO most of the time when guys are friends with us they MAY be hoping for something more.

It's not cheating but I understand why they might be uncomfortable.

[leolabrit]

aww thank you. and I think you may be right. I'll just talk to him about it.

[bobbyjean]

I don't think it is...if a guy and girl were friends before I think that the BF/GF should except that they are just friends nothing more.

[selfishstars]

No, it's not cheating.

[MachineMan]

Talking to other guys is normal, as long as you are not flirting or doing anything out of the norm of friends. It is normal to have friends of both sex and still have a boyfriend/girlfriend why would it not be ok?

[leolabrit]

My boyfriend doesn't think it is ok

[MachineMan]

Well he seems a bit possessive/insecure.Tell him you love him but that he should trust you and not try and be controlling. You are not his property.

[leolabrit]

Ok. I hope he tries to understand. I think his problem is he doesn't think girls and guys can be friends. But a lot of my friends are guys.

[assembledtoy]

Talking to other guys is fine as long as you are not flirting. Some girls let guys flirt with them and they flirt back because they can't even tell, so watch ooooout.

[RedThread78]

No it isn't cheating at all... I have many female friends most of which are going out with my male friends and we sometimes hang out without their boyfriends. It is just jealousy that causes people to be so irrational.

[SnackG]

Any guy or girl that think just talking to the opposite gender is cheating isn't going to have very long lasting relationships. It's not cheating at all.

[Ezmotts]

Yeah, it's fine, as long as you're thinking straight.

[Shadoww]

Its not cheating tho, if it was someone random I would be jealous if he talked to random girls.

[swimmer_012]

No it's not cheating.. Just don't hang out one on one. And don't lead the guys on. Make sure they know you're in realionship