Do you think the guy I'm dating hooked up with someone else?

[Anonymous]

A guy I'm dating said he was staying in.

The following morning I went shopping at 7am and went for a coffee at costa drive-thru.

He was actually in the passenger seat of his friends car. He doesn't live my side of town and said he never comes to this part of town.

Do you think he's hooked up with someone else? And should i mention it as he hasn't. What should I say if he denies it because it was him?

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[Brainsbeforebeauty]

He said he was staying in that night.
That doesn't cover the morning.
You were at the coffee shop early, does that mean you hooked up with someone? No, you said you went shopping and then got coffee. How do you know he didn't go shopping or just get together with his friend that morning instead of jumping to the assumption he's cheating?

[Anonymous]

Is there probably cause that he has a sneaky link? Do you have beyond a reasonable doubt that he's messing around with someone else? And his friend - is the individual a male or female? And did you see him with this other individual in the same parking lot as that drive through?

[Asker]

It's a male friend. His friend was driving. Their car was right behind mine on the queue. I don't have definite evidence, but just don't know why he'd be in my part of town that early in the morning. It's making g me winder if him and his friend slept at some women house. Dint know if I'm overthinking. But can't think kf any other reason other than he's hooking up with someone else

[Opinion Owner]

You're likely overthinking the ordeal. He is probably just cruising with his friend/just hanging out with his pal. I think you will have to continue observing his behavior when you're around him; does he seem cold and distant more often than it was before (for instance). You're going to have to be the judge of that. Either than that, it's likely nothing unless you stumble upon probable cause regarding infidelity.

[Asker]

One night a week, he never messages at all and leaves me hanging until between 10-12 the next day.

[Opinion Owner]

If he were to be constantly blowing up your phone with text messages, will you be turned off by that? Of course you will. I assume this man works for a living right? If he is, then he's likely busy. He probably knows better not to overly shower you with plenty of attention. If he's genuinely busy, then let the man do his grind.

[Asker]

Hevdoesnt blow up my phone, or he was. I work with him too

[Opinion Owner]

I wish you the best. I believe you'll be all right.

[JakeS00]

I wouldn’t assume like that.

[JohnK123]

That doesn’t mean anything