When I was in my early 20's I met a woman 20 years older than myself and dated her for almost a year. It wasn't something either of us were planning on, dating older or younger that is, it just happened.
We met while I was at the hospital having outpatient surgery on my wrist. They gave me one of those gowns that tie in the back and she was a nurse that offered to help. Only thing was I didn't feel her tying it and when I looked back she was staring at my butt lol. Her face went bright red and I laughed. Happened to meet in the parking lot later and she gave me her number. q
I don't know if I was really dating but when I was 15 and 1/2 16 years old I was going out with an older woman that was in her forties and then after her another one that was in her late thirties and after her another one in their forties I absolutely loved older women because they know exactly what they want and if you know how to read them you can give it to them better than they've ever got it before I wouldn't change a thing if I was that age I would do the same thing again
I think there are a lot of guys into older women. Maybe not percentage wise, but number wise it's higher than you think. The whole "cougar" stereotype is pretty false because 90% of the time it's the younger guy who pursued the older woman to begin with. That was the case with me and my husband (who is 16 years younger than me) and pretty much every other older woman-younger man couple I know
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When I was that age, I didn’t consciously think about the age of a woman I wanted to date, I just dated girls I met and school and at work, who were around the same age as me. I probably would have though, had the opportunity arises.
Guys that age usually aren’t take seriously as partner by women that age, though.
I turned 30 recently. I would probably only seriously date or be in a long term relationship with a woman no more than 5 years older, but there can always be exceptions.
If it's short term, where we both know it won't last, or a hook up, it could be as old as 50 years old.
Did it twice.
Once I was 24 and with a woman 38, single mom. Fun. She let me do anything I wanted. She wasn't very fit. Very sloppy and loose. Her flirty18 yr old daughter became a problem so I left.
And s 40+ yr old married woman.
Also very appreciative of my enthusiasm.
But in both cases I was a sex toy.
We made each other feel good for a time.
I had a blast.
I most definitely would have when I was in my 20s. When I was 32, I got a girlfriend who was 9y 1m older than me. My wife now is 5.5 years older than me but I didn't meet here until I was 36.
I dated a woman 14 years older once upon a time and it was wonderful.
People absolutely gave us looks, though.
I would prefer someone around my own age, but older women 5-7 years older isn't out the question. However, they're not someone I'd actively look for.
It is pretty rare but some guys do it for the $$$. They would date a nurse or teacher so all they can do is baby sit the kids while the women works.
i've hooked up with a lot of older women... i think they are a lot of fun in my experiences
I’ve dated cougars as much as 15 years older when I was younger
My ex wife 39F is married to a 19M. does that helps 🤷🏻♂️
Some like it, some don't
It’s whatever. Not a big deal for me
I love older mature women. Would you like to talk?
It’s fine !
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