Is it okay for me to fuck another dude if I'm already talking to someone?

[Anonymous]

Like we're not in a relationship yet but we're in the talking stage if that makes sense

[WonderBell99]

Of course. It’s okay as long as you’re not in an exclusive relationship with the guy you’re talking to. You’re under no obligation to let him know about your rendezvous with another man either.

However, if you’re not interested in the guy, do let him know. Don’t string him along and waste his time.

[TheSpaceGnome]

So gross... e_e

it's people like you that have me having to ask women all sorts of absurd questions that defy common sense.

No it's not okay.

if you are having sex, then you are already well passed the just talking stage of relationsionships with someone, so persue that guy, you don't deserve to lead on another guy.

[SamIam96]

For me, it's all about expectations. If any of your playmates think that you're being exclusive with them, you should correct that misunderstanding. If you're lucky enough to be getting it with more than one guy, good for you. Be safe. Be honest. Have lots, and lots of fun!

[dorksided1]

I mean you technically can but, why would you do that if you are talking to someone else? I guess a better question is how would you feel if the person you are talking to would have sex with someone else even though he is already talking to you?

[Trevelyan88]

It's okay as long as you guys aren't exclusive, but why would you?

Why not just fuck the dude you are talking to, if you that horny.

And if the guy you are talking to found out about it, even if it wasn't a deal breaker for him, it certainly isn't going to fall in the positive category.

[Anonymous]

Relationships are based on trust, you are knowingly withholding information relevant to the other persons ability to make an informed decision about whether or not they want to date you.

So is it cheating? No.

Does it completely undermine any potential relationship with this person? Yes.

[desidoll]

Yes, but do not tell the other dude because it is not cheating. He doesn’t need to know that.

[Still-alive]

exactly. i got downvoted for the same answer lol

[crossdressingrihno]

Probably not

And if you do do it the least you should do is at least make it be clear that you are also seeing other men

[Anonymous]

At your own risk.
You don't officially owe anyone anything, but if the man who you are talking to finds out there most certainly isn't going to be any more talking.

[laurieluvsit]

No commitment allows you the freedom to do what you want in that regard, yes.

[Shamalien]

sure it’s okay, just keep in mind that he may not be stoked to find out... it’s a risk and not everyone is interested in someone that’s sexually involved with someone else

[TheMajesticKing777]

If you want but don't be surprised if the other guy loses interest in you tho

[Agape93]

Yeap. You're not in a relationship so you're not bound to anything yet

[one1wild00]

You are still free, but if it gets out it has the potential to hurt the relationship your trying for with the guy you are talking with.

[Anonymous]

At your own risk. If I were in his shoes and found thst out, it would end the relationship before it ever began. I don't deal with cheaters or those that choose to believe casual sex is a good thing.

[Anonymous]

If you don't like him you have the right to move on and choose to fuck someone else instead, choose the partner you want not feel obligated to. As long as you're not being trashy like 2 timing at the same time then you're good

[Still-alive]

sure but just never ever talk about it or bring it up.

[Neilbud]

Trust is important. So I guess it depends on how bad you want to keep it moving forward.

[2021biguy]

Stop talking to the other guy if you want to have sex with someone else.

[Anonymous]

Go for it. The guy you’re talking to is probably just planning to use u for sex anyway.

[rocksongwriter]

Not likely. Only a very small percentage of men use women for sex.

[Anonymous]

It's not a good idea, Your better off just trying to be with the Guy you like the most and then Fuck him otherwise you might be seen as a Slut.

[Anonymous]

You will lose all chance of being a long term partner if you do.

[Msputiton]

No commitment.
You good

[UniquelyBasic]

Talking stage means nothing, its just talking

[FýrdracaDócincel]

You're not committed. Do whatever.

[Wise4myage]

Technically, you're still single, so I say yes.

[BeachLuvR97]

Judging by your language, no.

[driven159]

Then you don't want a relationship then

[Twalli]

Technically you aren't cheating

[Anonymous]

I guess if you’re not exclusive yet you can

[Anonymous]

wow you're a piece of shit

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[JesseJayNeak]

No, it’s not