Would it be rude to talk to the guy that you’re having sex with about another guy?

[Anonymous]

Listen, you’re not in a real relationship or anything and they don’t seem to really want you so if you’re just a friend and that’s
the category, you choose well they choose

Shouldn’t all subjects be on the table

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1 y

OK, everyone truth is I’m not going to do this and truth is I actually want the one person that I’m dealing with I’m not good at those complicated matters but if I feel something for someone else, if someone actually comes up, I would discuss it with them only because I don’t think he sees me in that light butI would like to be in a real relationship so that’s why I don’t do multiple people that’s weird

[incorrected]

If you're just fuck buddies it's fine, though probably he doesn't give a rats ass about other guys so it would just be uninteresting at best.

If it's a genuine attempt at a monogamous relationship then it would be rude because it signals you're interested in other dudes, which is a threat to his sense of relationship security.

[Asker]

No, I don’t think he wants me so it’s fine

[incorrected]

I suppose it depends what you're talking about regarding this other guy too, as to whether he's going to be interested or not. I don't think I've ever met a guy in my life who would relish it. They'd mostly just put up with it and at most pretend to care when all they really care about is sex lol.

[AviatorTom]

If there's no relationship, you can talk about anyone you want. Just don't shout out the other guy's name while in the throes of passionate sex. 😉

[Asker]

I would never do that. I’m very mindful and I gotta get my mind off

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[Zack-Bann]

Rude? No


But it would kill the mood.


Sex friends are usually in a mutual agreement to leave complications at the door. Have sex. And then pick up their complicated lives on their way out.


Talking about that stuff violates the unwritten rules.


It’s been aged since I had one such “friend” and I remember one time a guy called her while we were laying there and she told me he’s in love with her but she’s not too interested but picked up anyway so I proceeded to go for round 3 while she talked to him. I don’t think she ever came that hard in her life.


Just goes to show how easily these things can be complicated

[jahaims]

You're just a cum rag to him. Talk to a friend not a guy using you.

[Asker]

Damn friend harsh

[Asker]

And everybody doesn’t get the fuck me

[Kelly6]

@Justneedtokno no it’s not rude, even if you are in relationship.

many couples even like to talk this during sex including me, I talk to hubby about other guy during sex and he likes it

[Jamie05rhs]

I can't believe you fell for that. After all the years I've known you. Why are you letting him use you like that? He's never going to date you, girl. Sex is all he wants and you know that. Quit lying to yourself.

[Asker]

Yes, delusional is where I tried to play it. But at the same time, I already know Friend I’m not that delusional. It’s just difficult to sit there and find someone else or wait around for someone else. I am now doing better with putting myself out there going out, but I’m not gonna lie waiting around as hard for a good guy

[Jamie05rhs]

@Justneedtokno I understand; I know it's hard. I just want to encourage you not to sell yourself short!

[HungTexan]

Depends on the relationship and the topic of discussion. Probably ok, but not ‘during’ sex.

[serious]

It is not rude but it is still inappropriate in my view.

[AnonAndrew]

No, not at all. Nothing wrong with talking to your friends about things.

[LiamS95]

It's not rude just most likely won't be received very well.

[Asker]

Why?

[LiamS95]

Why would it be?

[Asker]

Why would it not be received very well?

[krin_m]

I think it is fine as long as it is also Ok for the guy to talk about another woman

[Asker]

He sort of talks about them, not necessarily dating, but he’s interested

[krin_m]

I think that is fine.

[Anonymous]

Would it be rude to talk to a woman you're having sex with about another woman?

[NathanDavis]

this is about context... lol

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

Dont be mad when he goes flaccid

[Asker]

Why he shouldn’t care right?

[Anonymous]

If it's friends with benefits then it's fine

[msc545]

Very rude.