Is it wrong to "talk" to two guys at once?

[Anonymous]

And by "talk" I mean the flirting kind

[Wolframium]

Yes, I would say, that…it is. If I would be one of those guys, I would just…stop talking to you. I’m one of those people, who believe in communication and so on, but for you, I might just do the exception. Maybe I’m…selfish (?) but I looking for exclusivity. And I think I’m not the only one. This is why I wrote this. So…don’t. Just…don’t. We get it. You want to feel wanted. Trust me, you are girl, you are wanted.
Ask yourself: what if roles would be reversed, and you would be one of those girls? Just…one of some group (of 2 :-D )? How would you like that? Do you got it? Like…the answer. Cool, now imagine, that different people might react to this situation differently. You have my reaction here, and I see some guys are OK with it, which…I just don’t get, but hey, their lives. :-)

[Yes-Man]

I wouldn't say so. Flirting is flirting. Dating is dating. So if you're only flirting, you're just trying to make a choice between them and it's ok. If you're dating with either of them, or both, then it's wrong.

[mica3269]

No as long as it isn't serious with either of them. If it does get serious you should probably stop talking to the other one. Don't feel the need to tell the guys that you are talking to another guy as long as it isn't serious.
In my case I did tell one guy I was talking to about another guy I went on a few dates with but that was because nothing serious was going to happen with us and he kept telling me I needed to meet and hang out with other guys.

[m_mj45]

Have you committed to one? And continue to talk to the other? If so, it is wrong. If not, it isn’t. You are allowed to see what is out there and if you tell yourself it’s wrong to speak to multiple guys at once, you will truly never know who is the better pick for you. However, there does come a time when you have to be honest and let one down. Be sure to do that, or then it is morally wrong.

[QueenofCups]

No, it's ok to flirt with more than one guy. But once you start seriously dating one of them, you should stop flirting with the others.

[whatleyalex96]

it honestly all depends. in my opinion leading people on that you have no interest in is a pretty shitty thing to do; although, if it's not serious I mean it's kinda like window shopping.

[Personontheinternet]

If you're single, then that's perfectly fine. Just make sure that the guys don't feel like you have something going on with them. If you're committed, then that's not ok at all.

[Lancaster4201]

To me until you define a relationship with one of them, it's fine. but once you are going out with one of them and you define the relationship cut it off with the other.

[Imtheonlyone]

Wise person once told me keep your options open when you decide who to keep for a relationship drop the other guy and don't lead him on or you're a horrible person

[Shoebooty13]

Flirting is fine, but if it's a little more honesty is important. Due to social media and jealousy some guys can be vindictive.

[kraft413]

girls are way more vindictive

[Anonymous]

As long as they both know you're not committed to either of them and its just flirting and you're not dating both of them where they think you're exclusive, it's fine

[ZSean]

as long as you are not in a relationship snd are just dating around I would say it is fine. If you get more serious with one which is heading to possible relationship status you should cut the other guy out

[Browneye57]

Never. Talk to as many people as you feel like. There is no law or rule about talking to people.
OTOH, if you have to ask you're not ready for this anyway.

[Prof_Don]

Not at all! You're supposed to play the field when you're single.

That way, when you're in a relationship, you have no regrets. :)

[Anonymuos]

No it is not wrong. However, once you decide which you like more, let the other go. Don't be rude to him

[podski]

Flirt with as many as you like... As long as you quit when you do date someone, then it doesn't matter.

[Matti_Jr]

No. Might as well spin multiple plates at the same time.

[Gio-NL]

no. only when things get serious dont let the other one hanging

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No it's okay to talk to two guys at once, play the field to you find the right guy.

[SteelWill75]

Yes. If a guy did it you'd think he was an asshole.

[BiBoy16]

Yes if you're in a relationship and no if you're single

[cattertone]

as long as you aren't committed to either one its completely fine

[Lerro]

Well, I guess it's okay, but don't try to hide it :p

[BaddieBunny12]

Not at all fuck guys get money

[karem23]

yup ver wrong

[Tootsie89]

For me It's not wrong

[pandabro]

if you're not dating anyone, yes

[madhatters4]

seems fine to me

[rajveer44]

no its not at all wrong i m open

[Rojaasu]

yeah

[sharon1990]

I would say no

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yes..

[CT_CD]

Yeah

[Thevampire]

Yeah it's cheating

[Tim-loves-it]

not at all!

[funme]

No it isn't