I started talking to this guy on tinder a month ago and after 3 or 4 weeks of texting we meet up and everything was great. That same day during my break from classes I made some new acqutinces/friends. Well one of them is really cute and nice. So now me and the guy I meet on campus hangout a lot between our classes.
Now I can't stop thinking of both guys....and I haven't really talked to the guy from tinder as much after we meet up and I don't know why. He just started texting me less and not really responding to my texts.
So I wanted to know is it okay/normal to like two guys at once? I feel like a bad person but I can't help it....
Also why do you think the guy from tinder started to stop texting me? That night, the day we meet up we texted and he told me he had a good time, he even admitted he wanted to kiss me....was he just saying that not to hurt my feelings?
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Yes its ok, and actually quite normal. here's what you have to do:
Don't tell either guy about the other. If one of them asks you to make things official, tell them that you would like to get to know them better first. Because its not cheating unless you are officially in a relationship with one of them. Dont let attractiveness play a part at all (they both have to be somewhat attractive if you like them anyways). As you hang out with them more, make two lists. One for Guy #1 and one for Guy #2. Write down all of the things you like about both of them. Also write down all of the things you dislike about both of them. Things you like are worth +1 point, and everything you dislike is worth -2 points. Add up the scores for both guys, and see who has the higher score. Go out with the one with the higher score because he is most likely more compatible. But as for the other guy, make it clear that you just want to he friends, and stay in touch with him, but see if you can go out with them if things end up going south with your first choice.1