I suppose it is.
I had a friend actually one of my best friends. I have known him for years (10+), well one day he came over to visit, my sister and baby brother were there too. He brings up random things like, damn you fit those jeans right. I'm like, "What did you say?". He said, "You heard me, don't act like you didn't hear." I was just like, "What's wrong with you?" He was just acting different, he usually was respectful, even though we have always talked about everything he never was this forward & overly confident. So later that day he is like, "We should have sex right now on your bed, that would be fun & random!" I was once again like "WTF?!". He always liked me but I friend zoned him when we were like 12, not that I was being mean but he WAS like a brother to me. We met when I was 7 & he was 6 and this happened when I was 18 & he was 17. I just dusted off the whole situation and acted as if it didn't happen but he was just gross about it, it was NOT attractive or anything. I later found out that he lost his virginity to some slut at school she was a slut I'm not just saying that she is one. So I guess he was a new person after sex lol He and she are happily together now, I'm just like good luck? xD
they are just subtle hints, turned into jokes,but he really does mean it,he is just waiting on you to open up to the idea,if you don't want to go there tell him to stop with the sex jokes as they make you uncomfortable
Yes it happened to me.They wanted to see your reaction so they make it like a joke to avoid awkwardness.If you seem to act like a 'yes' then he is lucky.If no,then he has nothing to lose since it was just a 'joke'
QueenBeatris has the best answer.
He's testing the waters to see how you react and trying to get in your pants. He's never acted on his intentions (of fcking you) because you clearly haven't given him the absolute green light yet.
I don't agree with CellLuddite at all
He is using humor as defense mechanism because he is may be shy or afraid of rejection. Guys never joke about wanting to have sex. If we say it, we really want it!
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My friend is the same way, I think it's a guy thing and it's meant to be a joke. He's never acted on so I don't get offended. Plus we rarely hangout together without my boyfriend, and he says stuff like that in from of my boyfriend so if he started sneaking and saying it I'd be worried.
It's a joke. He jokes like that with everyone. Sex is inherently funny. If you don't believe me take him up on his offer for a threesome and see how fast he backpedals.
He wants to make love to you , but uses humor to express his wish in order to have plausible deniability in case you reject him . He can just say " I was kidding "
Ps. Are you attracted to him ? If so you have to make a move.
he'd like to do it with you but he feels you'd turn him down.
No I dont. He was hinting that he's into you
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