I have this friend who makes comments about me sleeping with other guys. He also suggests that I have sex with other guys. I think it's weird that he has a slight interest in my sex life. I don't have an interest in his. If he's sleeping with a woman, cool. If not, cool. It's none of my business.
It's raining in my city today and I made a joke about not hearing any old man snoring. My friend asked if I got a young man then. I finally told him if I did, he would never know. He asked why not and I essentially told him that I prefer to keep stuff like that private because someone's sex life is personal. I would only really tell someone about it if they were interested in having sex with me or pursuing me. I haven't heard a peep from him since. I hope I got my point across because his offhand comments about it got old pretty quickly.
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He was trying to normalize sex talk as a way of flirting because… drumroll… he likes you! One day he was going to joke, ‘yeah, maybe you should sleep with me’. No that you’ve called him out he knows he embarrassed himself, ruined his shot, and is wallowing in self pity.
I'd wish he would come out and say what he wants instead of me figuring it out. That's a turn off for me. The man is almost 50 and he should know better.
Alas, we rarely do 😔
It's obvious he wants to do something sexual with me, he just will not come out and say it. Nor will he make any move. I am not a mind reader so it's easier for someone to be blunt with what they want. He also knows what I want but he gives off mixed signals so I haven't made a move at all because he just wants to be friends, or so he says. It's frustrating.
Yeah, he doesn’t want to embarrass himself because you are friends. But if you made a move on him, he’d be eating out of the palm of your hand. He needs you to want him, for his own ego. Not saying you should. Just telling you what he never will.
Yes it is, and he sounds like a nosy prick.
Yes, good job.