How can you properly shoot your shot through Dms when you don’t know each other?

[big_benjamin777]

[OlderAndWiser]

You can't! If a guy wants to give it his best shot, he needs to get over being a scared little MF, grow some balls, and actually talk - voice-to-voice, either over the phone or in person - to the girl who he is wanting to have be important in his life. DMs are for guys who can't or won't man up.

[big_benjamin777]

Not Necessarily, there’s girls from other places or girls you haven’t met yet

[OlderAndWiser]

I've used online dating on several occasions and always tried to move from DMs to actual phone calls as quickly as possible. And it almost always works.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If you act like a gentleman these ladies don't dirty talk keep it real

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for Most Helpful Guy :)

[lrina]

ask a very random question (not perverted or something that would make them uncomfortable, just random but not boring). although ig hello might work too lol

[Anonymous]

You can't! Know her and make yourself familiar with her in person first. Then anything is possible

[Nazorella]

Ugh i always do basic shots like “hi” i know im kinda boring.

[Ironic_Method]

At least you know it -.-

And what's worse is that you don't even HAVE to be interesting for guys to respond! The onus is generally on the men to impress.

[Nazorella]

@Ironic_Method noo cmon, sometimes they are not responding me as well.

[Ironic_Method]

All you need is ONE good pick up line and you are set.

[Nazorella]

@Ironic_Method guess so but im super easygoing and basic so my pick up lines is always hi hahah

[Ironic_Method]

Being easygoing doesn't mean you have to be boring! Just flirt a bit and you'll have them hooked.

[Nazorella]

@Ironic_Method okay okay i will improve myself... don’t be mad lol

[Ironic_Method]

Mad? I hope you don't think I'm upset at all. I just want you to have better results with your DMing!

[Nazorella]

@Ironic_Method thank you so much 🤍 but i guess im not lucky enough haha I already nevermind it

[Anonymous]

That's why you always lead with a d*** Pic. You have to allow her to see the merchandise first.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/qCfiXEWHahM

[Freeagent67]

Go with what you have available. It'll either be good or you'll never speak to them again.🤷‍♂️

[andylakes9]

Its tough - try to find some common ground?

[Citizenkirk]

What are DMs?

[lrina]

direct messages

[Citizenkirk]

@lrina o. k. I'm confused

[lrina]

idrk how else to really explain lol-- but basically direct messages are messages between two people only. sort of like text messages, just on a social platform instead of a phone if that makes sense.