Is it weird to DM someone you barely know?

[Anonymous]

There is this guy that I go to school with, and we were put into a book group together. He seems pretty funny and interesting and I want to get to know him better, and I was planning on doing that at school but now school is canceled for the next few weeks because of the coronavirus. Would it be weird if I DMed him even tho I don’t know him that well? We follow each other on insta and I really do want to know him better but I don’t want it to be weird when I see him next time we have class

Yes it is weird

No it is not

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Updates

+1 y

Guys I did it!!

[Massageman]

With the computerization of communication, I don't think it's all that weird, or even unexpected- and I'm older than dirt! So it MUST be OK for you young guys and gals.

[SpiffyDiffy]

Guys might find it weird, but not necessarily bad. They would be flattered more than anything. Guys don't tend to have a lot of women dm them out of nowhere.

[R3DthatDude]

There are some celebrities who have dated there fans, how will you know if you don’t try. Just don’t bomb your first impression by sending lewd stuff

[vickyaustin]

Have good convo when your are having good private time when compared to school.. Enjoy the time!!

[Maryland123]

find a good conversation starter it's not the end of the world if it goes south

[poneglyphs]

sometimes, but you gotta start somewhere

[farhaan7]

Now try it guys love when someone dms them

[Secret6620]

No it's not 🤓✌️💜