Later after having a talk with her mom she told me that she can’t stop living her life because of the things she was going through and that she needs to start a new chapter in her life and move past the bad things.
She said it would be good to do a fresh start and try again with dating. She said she didn’t have a label yet for us and that she wants to test the waters to see if we would be good together and to take it slow. She said all this on our first date over a month ago so it’s back to square one.
But there was things that she said during her breakdown that concerns me.
1. She said I’m a great person but there was something about me that she didn’t know how to feel about. She said she didn’t know the specific but just something about me.
2. She said I’m exactly like her (we both care about people, same interests, have same thought process). She said that it wasn’t a turn off and that it’s great but I don't know it doesn’t seem like a good thing.
3. She said that were both different people when we’re at work versus when it’s just us talking. She said that we have to act different and that our boss suspects that we’re going out makes her feel worried that our coworkers might know too. She said that she’s not embarrassed that she’s talking to me just that she didn’t want drama at work.
I don’t know if I should talk to her about this. I don’t want to add stuff to her plate but I can’t let these things go. She told me that she was sorry for the things she said and that it was in the moment but I feel that if you say things in the moment there’s truth to them.
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