Why do some men ditch women they perceive as "too perfect"?

[downrightcutter]

I've seen it countless times and now it happened to me too because apparently "I'm out of his league". I don't understand

[Naimgood]

It's a nice way of exiting a relationship while complementing you at the same time. I know you would like to believe that bs but people playing to each other's ego is almost guaranteed to make you believe their bs. Im sure you're attractive and whatever else but he wants to sleep with other people without completely burning y'all's bridge. It's funny how it works really well with conceited people. Guys fall victim to this constantly

[Anonymous]

It works both ways.
Insecurity and low self esteem.
Nothing more, nothing less.
Ditch then before they ditch me because they're too prefect for me and they're going to break up/leave me anyway.
Leaving is better on the dating resume than being left.

[MCheetah]

Fear of being rejected/hurt/cheated on/dumped.
They are (rightfully) insecure about the woman and I've been there, myself.

[UdontNeedtoknow]

They may be afraid of getting hurt since they may think that you will leave them for a rich guy eventually anyways. Very hot girls are hard to keep typically. Not impossible, but you super-hot ladies are also untrust worthy usually.

The old term HIGH MAINTENACE is a good way to describe it. Not always of course, but usually true at your age.

[NamerOfStars]

They probably think she won't stick around, and is just dating them to be dating SOMEONE.

[slatyb]

Maybe he truly believes that, but most likely he doesn’t. The only thing we know is that he doesn’t want to continue seeing you. “It’s not you, it’s me.” Is just a lie people tell to get the other person to go away as quietly as possible.

[Hellraiser1984]

We feel we couldn't live up to the expectations we think you have for us. Or you're tricking us. Once bitten twice shy

[magiusX26]

because too many times those are the same women who quickly turn us diwn, run off and cheat, are superficial, or turn out to be snobby/high maintinance.

[Staximus]

Because the guy thinks he's not good enough for her, or he thinks she's going to leave him for another guy she thinks is better

[zagor]

I used to put some girls on such a pedestal that I didn't dare approach them in a romantic or sexual way.

Now that I got over that, I never meet anyone like that anymore...

[Waldoe]

I think a guy that does that is doing you a favor, if he feels that you are "Too" good for him, then you probably are... the "Right" man will come into your life... "Don't Settle"

[FilmGuy93]

That's just a line. That's a guy's way of saying that you seem too sheltered and naive.

[bamesjond0069]

If you're out of all these guys leagues come get with a real man, you're not out of my league. 😘

[EaterPeter]

Too much work, we love our lazy bums, we don't want to bust them

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why some women ditch men they perceive as "too perfect"

[Berethor]

Because it might be too good to be true.

[DryGermanGuy]

Too perfect in... what? Competitive knitting? :-o

[TheFlak38]

because these women are frauds

[Kiran_Yagami]

He found another girl. That's all there is to it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

stupidity