Does it ever feel like women want perfection in a man?

[Anonymous]

Like women need a man that's tall 6ft, Good looks (Jawline, Abs and muscles)

Want a guy that makes a good income

Has high status and a good network of friends

No mental health issues

Has high confidence and good social skills

Has a car

Doesn't live with his parents.

This is close to perfection but i can't think of anything they want in a man

[Novacane]

I agree that women always want what's perfect, but then again that has to do with their reproductive aspect. Women are wired to seek out what's best for their offspring. On a large scale, we can agree that anyone would want someone, perfect even men. The only difference is that men have to live in reality and come to terms with the fact that it's not possible, while women are allowed to live in this fairy tale that the perfect man will come and sweep them off their feet. If men held the same standards that women held then that man will have no one in their life therefore men are able to settle with less, while women don't really settle for less they always date up.

[Anonymous]

Yes but relax man maybe 10% of them are going to find that dream guy. The rest are going to end up pregnant and alone. A single mom who is just a splurge towel every Friday night. If they're really stupid they end up with multiple kids from multiple men because they keep making the same stupid mistake.

[LohrvsData]

What really pisses me off about this type of woman is you can't teach them anything. Sometimes women find out, and they just move on, but others will want to blame it on you by throwing the "Why didn't you tell me he was cheating? I thought you were my friend!" card. I've been there before, and every time I respond with "It's because you're an idiot and wouldn't listen."

[Opinion Owner]

@LohrvsData yup.

[JustAnj]

I don't know about other women but all of that stuff is not gonna make me happy. A person is not an object, I want to feel something for a man have a connection and feel the attraction through my body And heart not my mind.

My husband is perfect to me in whatever size I'm nuts about him, and the only thing that made a man unapproachable to me was his immaturity and my lack of connection, attraction, or both.

I literally ignored my now husband three times that he attempted to ask me out due to seeing him as a boy not a man.

Finally one day by simply showing he was capable to express his feelings without fear or insecurities of being rejected made me see how much he matured. There was no strings attached or hard feelings simply him leaving me to decide if this meant something to me. He was interested and confident and just wanted me to know how he felt, he wasn't asking for more. This made me extremely attracted to him and as we got to know each other with time we both fell in love and I chose to take the opportunity to be his gal.

He was not muscular, did not have a job, had mental health issues he is still working on today and I'm still hella crazy about him, I also think his dad belly is adorable. 😜

Just be yourself and work on yourself you will find her, you might meet the wrong people at first but that doesn't mean you won't find the right one.

[Asker]

Meh exceptions don't disprove the rule

[JustAnj]

@Asker
Your ignoring something really important though.

Where do you come in as the person in your future wife's eyes.

The fact that women keep on saying this is not there main interest tells you that a relationship simply needs to continue to blossom in order to remain love. Your image will not do this.

If you are looking for women who care more about your body then your heart I hope she learns to love you soon after, these women may leave you dirty if there's an accident.

If you are just as in need for a woman to be about her image then you both will have to bring in that extra to keep the relationship alive.

[BabyGirlRobin]

Some women are like that, I never could understand them. I never really cared about height or money, I really find any men my age who is healthy attractive. Just like how there's men who expect women to be virgins or have a low body count, have no tattoos or piercings, must be fit, have long hair, big eyes, small noses, big pouty lips, must dress a certain way or act a certain way. Like there's shallow women, there's shallow men. Everybody sucks.

[Asker]

Well then I've been encountering hundreds of shallow women then

[Starrisunset]

I don't think it's fair to say that only women are like that. Besides, I don't think most women are like that anyways. I'm not. I have a couple requirements. You should have a job and a car. The mental issues depends. It would depend upon the situation and what type of mental issue it is. There are some situations I wouldn't want to be involved in.

[Asker]

Okay out of the two genders, women seem to have a high list of standards. There i changed it

[Starrisunset]

That's a little better but overall, at least from my perspective. I'm not expecting anymore of a man than I'm sure they'd expect of me.

[Asker]

What are you expecting from a man you date

[Jonny59]

I feel like its true
I just don't get it, I meet a woman she says: am lesbian okay gurl moving on
another girl: I have a boyfriend seriously? okay moving on
another gal: I am transgender now thats taking shit serious
am not ugly I am decent looking guy with neat clothes looking nice
smelling nice I care for people but girls are too picky and seriously this needs to stop

[InferiorElegy]

Females will feed you false hope and tell you no but they'll definitely choose a guy who has a perfect face and body, style, vehicle, etc. Over you if you don't qualify and they'll do this multiple times finding out something horrible about each one and then they start complaining all men are horrible. Then one might choose you because maybe your physical imperfections might me you have a decent personality blah blah blah.

[rjroy3]

I mean some of these aren't unreasonable lmao

Having a car isn't difficult. Not living with your parents is pretty achievable if you're willing to move somewhere you can afford, assuming you didn't get yourself into crippling debt at a young age.

No mental health issues. That's the average guy. The rest isn't required but sure as shit makes it easier.

[SphynxUK]

How do you know what perfection is for every woman on the planet?
And do you know the reason why some women decide what they want?
How do you know a woman chooses a man with a high salary because she also has one?
Perhaps they want a man with a cat because they can’t drive.
Not all woman are materialistic. You’d do well to realise this.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

You know, the only people who I ever see say that's the type of man women want... is men. I think a lot of the "standards" men think women have are not as common as they think. I think some men have shitty personalities and when they get rejected they decide it's because of the reasons above and not their attitude

[Titanya]

Nope
Because
What you mentioned are things guys look for in women too

Height- not too tall or short
Maintain weight
Skin- flawless
Hair- done all the time
No hair on body
Body count- must be low etc etc
Some men ofc but you get my point

[Asker]

Men aren't as picky as women though. Id say men's standards are low

[BabyGirlRobin]

How about both genders are picky and we call it a day. Men only care about looks and women only care about money.

[Asker]

@BabyGirlRobin Let's agree to disagree on this. Sure

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Not necessarily! I'm short and I've been putting on weight, and until some time ago I had dwindling wealth until my father made me his heir - and yet I've never had a problem with women.

[mvpverona]

All these women that have these standards are superficial. It is about having good character. Run from these females.

[Asker]

"Run from these females". So run from most women then

[mvpverona]

I never said that you are misinterpreting my message.

[mvpverona]

From a Godly standpoints these aren’t reasons why you should be with someone. If you would like to know more than read the BiBle. Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth.

[Asker]

I'm an atheist

[mvpverona]

That’s you you have a choice to believe or not. When you experience God you will believe in him.

[NathanDavis]

never felt that way no...

-I don't have Gym abs

really thought this list was going to get longer, but no, never felt that way

[Anonymous]

Just wanna man who works hard. He doesn’t have to have the best people skills or be the smartest or wealthiest but I’d like him to be honest, humble and compassionate towards orhers

[Opinion Owner]

And give me piggy back rides.

[K-I-S-S]

I would have qualified perfectly, but i don't give out rides 😒

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Are "women's high expectations" in dating actually made up by men?

[Anonymous]

Define "perfect." Perfection is a relative thing, so it's quite unfair for you to judge women in that way. Someone who is "perfect" in their eyes may not be perfect in yours.

I'm by no means perfect myself. I'm 5'8, weigh 210 pounds, have a large beer belly, and am not an asshole who judges women for their taste in men. Yet my wife loves me for who I am. She thinks I'm "perfect" because that's what she's into.

[Asker]

Good for you

[Babygirl_S]

We don't. So many imperfect men are called "Greek Gods". Look at most actors. They are not naturally perfect.

[Asker]

They're close to though. Women may not want 100% perfection but still they want a man that's near perfection

[Anonymous]

How does that motto go again?
“6 figures, 6 feet, 6 inches”

[ceciliamrs222]

it’s just imagination in reality i just want a lovely and caring guy tbh of course to me find the guy attractive i have some things that i like but i don’t have too much specific things

[Asker]

Bleh

[In_Trance]

Of course. Nobody wants someone that's broken

[Anonymous]

I have all of that and don't get sh*t lol