But he got tempted quickly by a coworker who is entertaining, hot, smart, kind and passionate.
Are humans never happy with what they got?
Doesn't matter how well his marriage was going. Cheating is being a huge piece of shit, there's no excuse for it. Break up 1st, divorce, etc before moving on to someone else.
If you're going to marry someone... you better make sure that person is the one for you. Getting married is a big decision to make. Some people don't understand that and don't fully know the person they're with yet, then jump the gun marrying someone.
He told me he needed someone to take care of his old parents and kids. He also added after 25, his parents started to force him to marry. He's currently 35. But still he got a beautiful, obedient, caring and well behaved wife.
"Forced". He made that decision and so did she to marry each other. She married a cheating piece of shit.
I'm even more scared because I've seen guys like him who appear quiet, sincere, shy and kind at first. But later you see their shady, perverted, cunning and fake side. I don't know how to trust anymore now.
That's what I mean by jumping the gun getting married. It's super important to date someone or be in a relationship for years to make sure that person is for them and they have important husband/wife qualities. Being loyal for example.
Because needs aren’t being met, a happily married person doesn’t cheat.
Yeah he told me he had proposals from a working woman but then he needed someone to take care of his old parents and kids. So he choose his wife. She's still beautiful and ideal wife but still he got seduced.
Men are fully capable of making their own choices, implying that he doesn’t have control of his sexual urges is extremely harmful and toxic.
Well, who wants a stupid, ugly, rude woman? Chances are, the reason he's so easily lead is because he's already married to one!!
So getting one good woman makes him attracted to another good woman with different talents?
Why do single women go after married men? Forbidden fruit, Eve?
You know I went undercover and found out about his married life. He's happy. But to me he was telling "his parents forced him, blah blah and he needed someone to take care of his old parents". He was acting like he's unhappy. I didn't trusted his words. At first he put his status as single so that's the reason I fell for him and NOW I FEEL SO BAD. That's why I was triggered that why the fuck they do this despite having a good wife. He even asked me to stay in touch with him, but I backed off. I don't wanna be a homewrecker.
I see!! well, then, you shouldn't really feel sorry. It wasn't your fault!! He lied to you!! That tells me that he's not fit to be with either one of you. If anyone's the homewrecker, it's him!! It may not be you, this time but, somewhere down the line, the marriage will break up because of him!! Not because of a her. Two of my ex-guitarists were like that! They were either seeinng someone steady or marrried to someone and they both still fucked around behind their wives/grlrrfriiend's backs!!
Yeah that's sad.
And I thought women were supposed to be smarter than men.
It's a "MATE POACHING" phenomenon that females of many species show including human..
I am planning to conduct an experiment in real life to know and understand this..
Would you be interested in the research data I will collect..
What do you wanna ask?
That's cool. Everyone needs to hear out the truth. I am starting to realize that everything including loyalty is temporary. If that married guy could get easily carried away then what else would have happened in extra 1 month of spending alone time?
Men have a difficult time resisting a woman that wants him. It's what they look for, is THE most important thing. Way above your tits, or your hair, or your eyes, or how smart you are.
It has absolutely nothing to do with his wife. Nada. Zilch. Zero. A big fat nothingburger.
Why don't women have same urges then? They'll still stay with a loser even if better guy tries to win them.
Oh they do. If they have any wherewithal they do.
Because he clearly was not as happy as u assume or getting the attention he wanted but is a dick head for cheating
I mean even if I fell in love with another woman I would cheat on a wife with all those features. Everyone has those urges; it’s just we have try and resist them.
You mean you'll have some fun secretly?
No, I’m not like that. I am an asshole, but I care deeply for the people I love. It doesn’t matter who they are.
Because she's passionate, smart, hot, and kind. That is what guys generally like. His wife might be that too.
Why didn't he marry a woman who is entertaining, hot, smart, kind, and passionate?
Because he wanted someone to 'take care of his old parents and kids'. That's why he choose to marry his kind and jobless wife.
I don't see that as 2 different people, he could have waited till he found the perfect match.
people need to be more patient, marrying the wrong person fucks up lives.
It is actually hard to seduce happily married men but they may just need to be liked or admired by other women to see the admiration look in their eyes more than that is cheating.
It is the caveman part of the brain.
You also have a cavewoman part to your brain.
Tell me about cavewoman
But then how the hell do females stay loyal forever?
Even if her husband is not so rich and has personality flaws?
Because, he is a piece of shit.
Agreed. I was otherwise deciding to never get married. It's so humiliating to be a perfect wife for years and within a month the guy will be seduced to a better or different woman.
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
Hard to shy away from the pull off flirting with someone new. Hardest when you're married and stay away from those situations best you can most days.
Human nature especially being a man
Men are hard wired to want to fuck.
And women? Hardwired to get emotional support and love?
Because they're not happily married
I think it is people that had casual sex/ONS/friends with benefits in the past. they may try to have a committed relationship, but it isn't in their nature so they can easily be tempted. That is one of the reasons I would avoid anyone that has had casual sex in their past.
Exactly I avoid them like a plague.