How does an average looking guy become a top tier guy women would want to date?

[Anonymous]

Being average looking as a guy isn't enough

[MCheetah]

You can't. Women don't want mediocre useless men, and rightfully so. If you have to ask this question, you are not "worthy." But in short, don't be f*cking "average."

Average is useless. Literally worthless and disposable as a person. Pointless. Common. Replaceable. Meaningless. And I don't mean that compared to women; I just mean in general for society. An "average" person is literally useless on a planet of 8 billion humans. Just another blade of grass or grain of sand on the beach.

You don't have to be Superman, or the world's greatest at something, anything like that, but DON'T BE WORTHLESS. Aka "average." Aka, another useless parasite on this planet. Be better. Do better. And do that for yourself, not just for women. Mediocrity deserves nothing but to be ignored.

Believe me; I was NEVER mediocre/"average" and I don't intend to be, but I work everyday on trying to be a better person. Getting projects done on the weekend, writing scripts, getting artwork done, working on music, bicycling long distances in the Spring and Summer, and so on. I get lonely sometimes and wish I had a woman too, but I also feel vindicated once I finally complete a project or finish a new script.

[MCheetah]

So once again, the TL;DR is: Don't Be 'Average.'
Don't refer to yourself as 'average.'
Don't think of your looks as 'average.'

[rabbitzzz]

Sell drugs, just kidding.

[Asker]

That's not a bad idea. Dangerous & illegal but damn it probably pays good

[Effably]

Can't day I know that one.

For me, I play to my strengths. I am an average, maybe a bit above dude. I might get some "He's good looking!" but won't get m/any "He's so hot!" responses. For me, I make some contact from a little afar. See if I get the right signals back and go for only the ones where I do.

After that? I play to my strengths. Just doing whatever I am so-so successful. If I instead go for a little meaningful conversation that is more than skin deep and some flirting that is well, maybe the same if just barely and suddenly the times I do not get reciprocated interest are few and far between.

Of course that is a combination of picking girls who are into me and then picking a setting where I excel and feel confident and comfortable while also being able to show some of my better traits.

I think for most guys it is just about getting out there. In the end it doesn't really matter if you succed 1%, 10%, or 90% of the time unless you try. And reality is, you can try a hundred times pretty quick if you want to. I find most guys who are really getting it simply do that. They're of course comfortable doing it due to experience but in the end, it is putting themselves out there that works.

Of course being the 11/10 dude with every perfect trait is the wishful thinking scenario. Realistically that is reserved for a very small part of us though.

[Avicenna]

There’s more to attraction than looks. Become gitter, more interesting and better/paid.

[Asker]

Okay

[Avicenna]

*fitter

[sheikalana]

Be confident, take care of yourself and dress nicely.

[Asker]

Im gonna get ripped because wonen love abs

[sheikalana]

You should exercise for health purposes not because women love abs. A lot of women don't care about abs.

[Asker]

Most do. Even the ones that say they don't

[sheikalana]

I know you didn't ask for my advice but I would like to tell you you should do things for yourself and because it makes you feel better not for validation.

[Asker]

We all subconsciously do things for validation but thanks anyway

[notwoke]

any or a combination of:
1. Be rich
2. Have above average confidence without being cocky
3. Be perceived as extra sensitive but still masculine (hard)

[exitseven]

Maybe upgrade your wardrobe, start working out, get new hairstyle and act like a total dick.

[bamesjond0069]

Confident and dominant. Financial security. Self control. Hope that helps.

[Anonymous]

Make a lot of money and get a penimplant to 12 inches