In your opinion, What’s the worst part about dating and relationships? (Page 2)

[exitseven]

I hated the deceit and the lying. I hated ll the games people played and I hated that people made me play games too.

[ARWINGx1]

Well, one example for me, is that it feels like... dating someone is like taking an exam that you haven't studied for. (Nor can you anyway.) and failing it CAN be a big deal.

[ARWINGx1]

Also forgot to add:

While the girls, (in general) either:

A. They HAVE been able to study for it.
B. They had the same issue, but (unintentionally) makes it look like they have it easier.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Sharing a bed. Ugh I need a bed the size of my room. I keep getting bruised ribs from having his elbow in my rib 😤 I swear it's worse now with a Queen bed than when we had the double

[Iron_Man]

Lies head games constantly arguing so many things can just make you absolutely miserable in a relationship. Also there’s a good positive side happiness bonding snuggling and holding each other having great conversations going out doing things really clicking

[clouuuud]

It's when they don't respect and are not honest with you.

[sheikalana]

The worst part of dating is the uncertainty. The worst part of being in a relationship is not always agreeing with your partner and having unnecessary arguments/disagreements because of that.

[RedStiletto88]

in my opinion it’s the getting to know him stage and deciding how much to trust him and what to share. Deciding if I can feel safe with him or …

[slatyb]

I thought it was fun to meet new people. Mostly there was no second date but so what? I always went with no expectations so I was never disappointed.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I used to worry about strangers constantly hitting on my girlfriend.
I would worry (regardless of knowing that she won’t cheat) whether someone is asking her out rn, following her around, catcalling her, etc.
And yeah, it would annoy me.

[LiamSawyer]

Exploring the possibility of an exclusive relationship. The questions, discussions, the doubts, the desires, so many things you don't expect.

[Redstang88]

Pretty much agree with you. Relationships are great, it’s the bullshit you have to go through first that sucks

[chulo1992]

If I can recall correctly, it was obligation part of it. Sometimes I just wanted to many days alone. Not to mention, I felt like sex was a chore and sometimes I didn't feel like working

[Asad1ONE1]

I'd rather be in no relationship than a bad one. Likewise, I'd rather be in a good relationship than be alone. *NOTE: "bad" and "good" may be subjective.

[sirderpsalot123]

Good question. I'm big on "we aren't breaking up. We're going to sit down and figure out how to fix whatever the problem is" and sometimes that's a difficult thing to do.

[bamesjond0069]

The amount of totally undateable women who think they are the most amazing person in the room. *facepalm*

Excluding them, dating is fun and easy for me. Unfortunately they make up the majority of women.

[DarkWinterNights]

Most of it lol. The searching, asking out, etiquette, assumptions and trying to interpret signals are all unenjoyable and stressful.

[Citizenkirk]

The lies and misconceptions people propagate in an attempt to get "lucky!"

[anon1903]

Would struck in a loveless marriage for the sake of kids count?

[Justneedtokno]

The whole putting yourself out there because I don’t like going out I’m not a club person I just like hanging with family and friends

[Deserter]

Breaking the ice, figuring out what you can and can't say so you know how to be comfortable around them. Structured conversation in general