What's the worst thing about dating you?

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For me, it's certainly self-sabotaging and overthinking. I think it's part of being a pessimist. I tend to see the half glass empty instead of half full.

7Phoenix7 · Accepted Answer

I get to know you, the you noone else sees and the part of you that you like to keep hidden lol.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My depression I go into states where I can barely get out of been I won't talk

Summeroflove · Answer

I’m pretty blunt. I’m honest or say nothing. Some love that others not as much

ohsheeT · Answer

Once again I'm not sure so I'm Going to have to say probably everything, except for the? Good things

serious · Answer

Well, I think you have asked a positive question on this aspect as well. Interesting that you are asking this question.

Well, as a man I have standards or what people is "my type". Not only there is a worst thing as well as much as I have positive qualities there are some qualities which won't be easy for a woman to handle. The qualities, personality aspects that are not good are as mentioned below

1. I am very rigid, closed minded and a person who is highly resistant to changes (major changes).

2. As a man my standards are very strict. There are many behaviour aspects that I can never tolerate and accept. Like for eg, a woman playing any sort of manipulative mind games with me like playing hard to get or using the jealousy card etc. I won't ever put up with all this, won't ever accept and tolerate all this. In short my tolerance levels are very low.

3. Related to point 2, there are many things I see as " unforgivable" so I can never forgive and forget easily. That would mean second chances won't be given ( in certain things/subjective)

4. I am always logical and rational. I am entirely ruled by head and so for me LOGIC and doing what I believe is right is more important than LOVE itself.

5. I am not the typical funny and jovial type of guy who can make a woman laugh and smile. On the contrary I am always serious, honest and straightforward.

Summary is it will be very challenging for the woman to be at her best as the margin of error would be very minumum. There are other points but these are the best ones to answer your question.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

The only complaint I have remotely had from one ex was that I never seem to get mad which apparently made me unreadable for her. Not true. I can get mad. Definitely frustrated. I just never felt mad or angered by someone I was involved with. someone. I have felt frustrated with a significant other or two. I just don’t take it out on them either. I certainly never take my outside the relationship anger or frustrations out on them either. I am pretty easy going and I often hear, easy to talk with too which is probably why (with one exception) I don’t get any contention in my relationships. I do tend date women more on the cerebral side which probably keeps things on the peaceful end of the spectrum.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I have standards for the people I surround myself with. You will get honest feedback. You will be held accountable. You will be challenged. And you will be judged. If that sounds daunting, it shouldn't... For a healthy adult personality with reasonable intelligence and empathy.

DonaldDarko · Answer

I'm complicated. Women need a red blooded man who will instinctively behave in ways they desire. A man who's naturally tuned to them. I'm not a bad guy but the way I think, I'd be ashamed to dump that on a woman. If you can't actually deliver the goods or you find the whole thing disgusting then you should stay out of it. Sometimes a girl really likes me and I feel bad about that but I'm just not relationship material. I'm doing her a favor in the long run.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I hold myself to extremely high standards, and I expect the women I date to do the same. I do practice what I preach, though, so it's not like there's some double standard happening.

I've tried dating women who are more relaxed, but the lifestyle differences make a relationship impractical. That's the negative side to dating a high achiever.

Valdemort · Answer

I'm anxious as fuck and need constant reassurance. It's tiring.

alice55 · Answer

I'm overly jealous and self destructive if I feel like the guy don't love me or show interest in someone else then I lose all feeling in 2 secondes and get out.

Jltakk · Answer

Dealing with me in the first place. I'm inattentive, and am prone to spiral, dissociate and ruminate on horrible things I've said or done, among other things. When I say that I would make a horrible partner and father, people think I'm joking, but I'm serious.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

If you hurt me or piss me off badly I can say some pretty harsh and horrible things to you. Also I am stubborn, so once I make a decision it is rare for me to go back on it.

Agape93 · Answer

If you give me an std that isn't curable, I will kill you.

Beckybooboo · Answer

Ha Ha, I see what you did! I guess I can be overly affectionate and it can come across as clingy or needy. I can also be demanding at times 😞

MemeSupreme · Answer

my mental disorders im not easy to date like you need patience, empathy, and a certain mindset to deal with it. ofc i work on it but it's not perfect

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I'm usually uninterested and inexperienced in forming long term plans, so I blend poorly with any woman investing time and energy into planning

Fireguy17 · Answer

My schedule, there have been a lot of missed dates, dinners, you going places alone, plus I work out of town a lot from April through October so I am gone fairly often for a few days a week.

sage2021 · Answer

There's really no downside except I know what I want and I know that I wouldn't share him with anyone!!!🩷

Lottydotty · Answer

Its extremely hard for me to be positive. I can smile and laugh but like I stuggle to want a relationship daily. If Im in one it'll be my first and last in any case. If there's an after that, I'm just spreading seed at that point.

glennos89 · Answer

I'm shy have difficulty's being able to open up myself unless I feel completely comfortable being around you

NicholasRedone · Answer

@simslover92 I've got little to offer even After all these years - I haven't even built up my trust fund 😅😅😅😅

TheSmellOfVictoria · Answer

I drink too much and don't take certain things serious enough.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Expecting the worst. Also not knowing the others persons sense of humor is tough. You never know what you. can get away with. Also maybe not being able to completely relax. I'm being judged.

Iron_Man · Answer

if you’re a girl looking for excuses you’re barking up the wrong tree because I’m too intelligent to be played with or lied to be honest, be a team player and you’ll be alright

beenherebefore · Answer

I travel a lot for work and I don't check my phone often.

Shiprex · Answer

Probably forgetting things completely accidentally or not getting dates/days right

exitseven · Answer

I am pretty closed up. I am a hard person to really know

ilistengood · Answer

Hm. The worst thing, my yachts only like ,100 feet long?

WonderingManII · Answer

I would be a very nervous and awkward person to date.

Coden7 · Answer

I don’t like giving or receiving hints. If you need something, say something lol

zagor · Answer

I tend to wander off by myself when I go places with people.

Sal_Monella · Answer

I value my independence and those things I liked the day before I met you.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I won’t have sex until he seems serious enough. No time for whorebags

Anonymous · Answer

Nobody ever dated me, so I can't be sure.  I suppose I'm similar like you, a pessimist and overthinker.

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

I don't reply to messages right away sometimes.

MinaV · Answer

I'm hard to control when I get really angry

WhitneySnow · Answer

I can be needy

Vegasrunner · Answer

Proably that you will have to share me w/ my other women, and I don't give second chances so one mess up and I usually get rid and replace the woman.

Miah06 · Answer

I get bored wit my partner really quick.

chrissykerdock · Answer

i'm addicted to cum i need it everyday

Ngs54 · Answer

I'm terrible in the kitchen.

Godihateyou · Answer

When I said "you don't have to guess what I'm thinking because I'm gonna tell you" I lied. I'm a sociopath and a pathological lier.

strateguy632 · Answer

I am boring.

Ironic_Method · Answer

I'm too stubborn for my own good.

Anonymous · Answer

You have to be extreme generous until you her pussy

fish5505_87 · Answer

I'm Loud, moody, but mainly positive!

dudeinohio · Answer

That's kind of like me too.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

i probably won't like them

Twalli · Answer

I deal with issues by not talking about it.

msc545 · Answer

I'm not going to put up with your shit.

Robert1971 · Answer

My wife says thick headed

CubaPirate · Answer

My intolerance

Panthero80 · Answer

I suppose I can be a bit needy at times.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I work a lot

Lilly1979 · Answer

I am demanding.

swettannie · Answer

I'm indecisive

scott04sa22 · Answer

I dont drive

zombiewoof · Answer

I am a dirty old man

Anonymous · Answer

Everything

Sam1726 · Answer

I'm broke

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