Did he ever even care?

Anonymous
Long story so I’ll try to summarize:

He (25) met me (20) at a bonfire. He got my number, took me on a few dates, and then took my virginity. We lived 2 hrs apart and I would ALWAYS drive to him whenever he wanted. He never drove to me, although I never asked. Our “situation” lasted 2 months.

Shortly after college started, I met someone else and ghosted the guy I met at the bonfire. Here’s the thing, he barely tried to get me back. Over the span of 2 weeks he only made 2 half ass attempts via text to work things out i think? (I ghosted both attempts) and then after that, he completely disappeared. He didn’t showed any type of emotion.

I would throw my new man in his face on Snapchat story, but he not once ever viewed the story, even though I would view his at literally the last minute every time.

Did he ever even care about me? He was very physically affectionate towards me and he wanted to see me every week, but he was very indifferent and dismissive about me ghosting him. It’s like I was just another vagina for him to explore.
Did he ever even care?
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