If you are late bloomer do you also feel that time is running out and that you feel too old to be inexperienced with women?

[poneglyphs]

That's how I have been feeling for some reason and I'm contemplating on getting an escort or something? I feel like I haven't been improving my dating life at all? Is that just me or what? Because mistbof my friends are able to get girls eaiser than I can while I just stumble on getting a reply back?

[Mary087]

Do you attempt to make an effort like strike up conversations or use dating apps? Maybe go out and ask a girl on a date? I used to feel I was running out of time till I kind of let it go and got laid for the first time at age 22 so you’re not alone.. there’s a guy at my work who’s 26 and never had a girlfriend. I suppose everyone has their own time but you’ll never know unless you try and put yourself out there.

[poneglyphs]

Yes, I do get dates but rarely and I am on dating apps. Just that I have never been on more than the first date. I can never get a second date or third.

[RobT312]

Yeah prob. a late bloomer, but u are still young.
have your friends help you or have their girlfriends help you.
a friend of mine kinda set up my girlfriend and I and we are going on 5 years strong

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay and yeah you're right I do have friends and people who love me or take care of me

[RobT312]

👍👍👍 have them set you up on dates dude

[poneglyphs]

I will try to lets see what they say

[OlderAndWiser]

I didn't start dating regularly until I was about 22 years old. No one who meets me now would ever suspect that I got a late start.

[poneglyphs]

Damm well I feel much lately than you and still haven't started dating 🥺

[OlderAndWiser]

You can start whenever you want. You've gotta push yourself to get the initial experiences and that will then start to develop your confidence.

[poneglyphs]

Well, I try too with dating apps and going to meetups just that I can't go past the first date

[OlderAndWiser]

What's going wrong on the first date?

[poneglyphs]

Most girls stop talking to me even I think ut was a fun date.

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you think most girls perceive you as too nerdy?

[poneglyphs]

Maybe, I do like nerdy things but also I like other things like hiking and other things

[OlderAndWiser]

You must have some idea of why you never get past the first date with girls.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[poneglyphs]

I have no idea honestly and that bothers me 😕😕

[In_Trance]

Time running out is a perception.
You have 100% of your life left. It's up to you what you do with it.

[poneglyphs]

Damm you're right 😁😁

[exitseven]

Everyone is different and have different time tables. It took me 10 years to graduate college. It sucked and I always felt behind but I just got on with my life and did the beat I could do.

[RealMarek]

Time is on your side.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay it doesn't feel like that too me 🥺

[RealMarek]

Well, imagine how different things can be in three or four years. All the things you are working toward might begin to show some results. You should be more mature and more confident by then. I’m not saying things will be easy, but there is reason to believe it could be easier if you stay motivated and work toward it.

[Anonymous]

Reminds me of something I never liked and will sadly never change

[Dchrls78104]

I'm 44. I already feel somewhat like that.

[EaterPeter]

Late bl9omer yes, too old, no

[EaterPeter]

Bloomer, *

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well I feel like that because moat of my friends been in relationships while I haven't had one

[EaterPeter]

What's the age difference between you and me?

[poneglyphs]

22 years

[EaterPeter]

You get to choose my man whether to field too old or time is running out

[EaterPeter]

Let it encourage you to do something good / legit about it

[EaterPeter]

To feel *

[zagor]

Meh I quit giving a shit a long time ago.