Do Goth Women date Black American men?

[Blackmoonrising]

Despite America's history with enslaving black people for profite. There exists this underlying notion that it's still forbidden and even frowned upon for white women to date black men! With the only exception to the rule being if the black man has a nice body and is wealthy! I recently took several online quizzes, to see if these online tests could tell me (what I already know), about what types of women I'm attracted and the qualities I look for in anyone -- regardless of your taste in music, style of clothing or political leaning, if that's your thing! And interesting enough, all the test I took chose "Goth" as my type of woman to date! And I get it... all these tests are subjective and are to be taken with a grain of salt! But to be honest, these quizzes were spot on!!! So I'm here to ask the question: Do Goth Women date black men? If the answer is to each their own... I've heard all that before! It's not a compelling argument because our of 330 million people in America, if only 10 goth women would date me, that's a pretty weak argument!!! So where can a great guy find a fit, 30 something, smart, funny, intelligent, hard working, girl that has the best of both worlds.. is Goth, but is by no means typical? Thank you all..!

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, it’s not common to see goth women in my town but I’d assume that goth women would like someone who is compatible with her lifestyle, and not really care much about race.
Not every goth woman is the same though, some might prefer black men over white men, who knows. Just keep trying until you find one.

[Blackmoonrising]

Good advice -- appreciate it!

[Curmudgeon]

Hey, if you want a White girl, and you are good to her, well more power to you.

However, the Goth scene, like the Metal and Punk scenes, is VERY VERY VERY White. Now are there Black participants in all of the aforementioned? Sure. But you will be the Odd One Out. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

[Blackmoonrising]

I agree, well said! It's funny because if someone wants to date a fish or a tree it's ok. If someone wants to be gay or identify as a computer chip, it's ok. But wholly crap if a black guy wants to date a white women... lol!

[Curmudgeon]

Well, there ARE White women who go for Black men. If I recall correctly, a social scientist had an observation: BM/WF couples are three times more likely than the converse WM/boyfriend. And WM/AF (Asian Female, not "As F***") couples were three times more likely than the converse AM/WF.

Now in fairness the White women who go for Black Men I have known in my life were either:
1. German women who were attracted to an Army serviceman over there, or
2. American White women into the hip hop music. These women DID tend to be larger/fatter/BBWs.

[Curmudgeon]

ack autocorrect. that was supposed to read "WM/Black Female"

[Blackmoonrising]

Ha-ha..! Interesting response, and a lot of great points! And your right, about the majority of white women that black men date are overweight or obese. Now that's not a shot at big women. It's simply been an observable fact! Me personally, I prefer fit women, period! In the past, I've dated some amazing women, all white American, Italian, German, polish, Spanish and Greek. I was raised to be color blind and have always looked at dating lighter skin tones as my way of destroying the color barrier once and for all. And was happy to lead by example. I also have experience dating almost every ethnicity on the planet -- except Asian. As their cultural practices are the most hardened I've ever encountered. They are under immense pressure of culture and family to stay within their own ethnicity and never deviate! But thanks again for sharing your thoughts and insite! Much appreciated 👍!

[Curmudgeon]

@blackmoonrising Sadly, there may be a reason for that. The palpable tensions and bad vibes between Asian and Black were and are there, at least in the 3 urban areas I have lived that had significant concentrations of both (Sacramento, Oakland, Los Angeles). And the sad truth is that were you White, the parents are palpably are more approving than were you Black.

[max227]

if you ask me I would say now of days yes because I am in a relationship with a super cool goth girl I am a black guy and we have been together for 7 months and still going strong so its a blessing for both of us would say goth girls are the real MVP

[Seinna]

In my experience, most people want to date people of similiar culture or sub-culture. So a goth girl would most likely prefer someone who's also goth. As for race, it's a secondary thing and it depends on the individual, not on whether they're goth or not. You'd just have to approach them and see if they bite.

[Blackmoonrising]

Good advice! Much Thanks!

[AvaOneLasTime]

I don't understand, what kind of answer exactly you want? The way i see it, best way is to simply keep trying with Goth women, until you succeed. Might take a while, if its worth it, would it matter?

[Blackmoonrising]

No offense. Your 18. What do you know about what a man wants or needs? So, of course you don't understand the question. There's a lot of things you don't understand. And there's a lot of things I don't understand about 18 year old girls. I have a niece and she's 18. Why would a full grown man ask her for advice on dating? When she can barely manage the complexity s of her current boyfriend who's 19? Exactly!

[AvaOneLasTime]

You asked in the site, not me specifically. If you don't want to accidentally ask young girls, follow and message older women.
And do that, until you succeed. - again, my original point.

[Blackmoonrising]

I'm new to the site. I simply posted a question I was curious about. I definitely wasn't targeting minors to chime in on this question. Clearly, you can see my age -- why would you even attempt to address it? I'm happy to tay in my lane of adults. But you should also stay in your lane, and only give input to questions in your own age group. I'll look over the site and make sure that no minors have access to looking at us boring adults. Thanks for the heads up!

[Blackmoonrising]

Moreover, as soon as I signed up, they administrator automatically input my account to follow these 12 random people? Maybe that's how our signals got crossed. I'll see about "un-following" them!

[max227]

I have a goth girl girlfriend and I am a black guy so it doesn't matter

[paradiseonearth93]

I’ve seen a lot of goth women with black American men. I live in a large city. Its as common as dating a white American man from what I’ve witnessed.

[Blackmoonrising]

Thanks! I'm gonna get a lot a crap over this question! I personally don't see the big deal about interracial anything. But apparently this is still a heated topic... lol! If you know of any good dating sites you'd recommend just let me know.

[max227]

as it should be there is nothing wrong with it

[Anonymous]

It’s not taboo for black men to date white women? Black men love snow bunnies so much they constantly shit on their own women just to uplift women that only like them for either a fetish 9x/10 or to be “rebellious”

[Blackmoonrising]

Your a minor. But your wrong about black guys shiting on black women simply because there black. There's a good reason why a lot of black men will refuse to date black women. And the big reason is the militant like aggression and violent explosive nature of black women! And I guess you'd have to be a black man to know this!!! Regardless, black women are not victims -- for they each get out of their men what they put in them!!! If you want to be a sympathizer for black women, go ahead! When the day comes and they turn on you... you'll remember this stupid reply you made to a question, that's way above your depth. As a boring adult man, just like your parents I'm sure! I'll stay in my lane and only converse with elderly people over the age of 36. And you should stick to only giving professional advice to folks 17 years and younger! Anyways, have an exceptionally great day! And what the hell is a snow bunny...🤔🥴?

[heavymetalbrotha]

that's like 90% of who i end up dating, so just don't say anything too crazy and it's smooth sailing.

[Iron_Man]

Who knows

[Blackmoonrising]

I guess it doesn't matter if the woman is Goth, straight edge, country or contemporary. Who the heck knows what their thinking? thanks

[Iron_Man]

Sure…