Could a girl still get a guy if she had a learning disability.. possibly mild?

[Anonymous]

Would you even consider her as a partner.

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Oh okay 👌 true

[Anonymous]

Why not? Your just a good as the next woman.

That said, at your age, EVERYONE is shallow and superficial to some extent, some worse than others, most worse than older people who realize looks, and things out of someone's control, aren't everything. In your case, it's a learning disability. Anyone that would reject you for that, isn't with having anyway, but is going to happen. Everyone has a cross to bear in life, some more than one. All you can do is be you, and continue to improve where and as you can. You'll eventually find someone.

Engage in activities and expand your social circle there. If you have other hobbies or interests, engage others in conversation about them, and if you feel interest, invite them to join you sometime. Things like putt-putt, fishing, (I know... eww worms!), walking along the beach or trails in parks, bicycling. There's plenty that you can share, that others have interest in too.

Lastly, NEVER SAY NEVER! Some of the most wonderful things happen when you least expect them. Commonality breeds familiarity, and comfortableness. Some day you may look up, and this guy you've been sharing whatever with, has this look in his eyes. All of the sudden, he's like this chick is really cool. She's nice, and sweet, and on, and on. He'll see you for you, and not your learning disability, and even if he did see it, he'll decide that it's not really a problem because he just doesn't care. He only sees the woman sitting in front of himself and realizes that some things are more important.

You quit looking and stopped worrying about finding someone, abs concentrated on being yourself and finding your own happiness, and lo and behold, someone found you!

Stranger things hunny. Never say never. Don't ever count yourself out, because one day, BAM, there's everything you hoped for! Chin up kiddo. It'll get better.

[Asker]

Thank you so much 🙏 I really needed to hear this

[Opinion Owner]

👍🙂 YVVW!

[leah14]

It depends on the guy some guys can be jerks and only want girls to do "stuff" with them and leave only because of your looks. Its the best when the guy falls in love with you and does anything for you the guy should fall in love with your personality, not the shape of your body.

[Asker]

I mentioned learning disability not body

[leah14]

I was just adding on to that they should love your personality not disabilities

[Asker]

Oh okay 👌 true

[leah14]

Yeah it's messed up how people will try get the girl/guy only for looks and perfection in their mind.

[Asker]

True.. there’s no such thing as perfection

[KatieB713]

It would be shallow of them to not date someone with a mild learning disability...
It shouldn't define you or determine whether you are date-able

[driven159]

there is a person for everyone

[JohnK123]

Ofcc

[Fuentes]

More then likely