How to know if you can found a repecful and decont guy?

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I been on two dates with same guy that i met on a one of disabled dating sites called Whisper4u. is has be going great. I got bit nevous about the weather and the wind on last thrusday. what can i do make sure i get the decont and repecful men instead of unrepecful man. only flaw that i bit have is that i do not trust some women or get bit Jelous of some women. i know is was something do with my past experince where some yonger women didn't listen to me when i said you don't need to get involed with my relationship. or some yonger also said are you still going out with that same guy. the same yonger women kept asking and asking the same thing over and over. i told her to stop and she didn't but got mad at me when i was asking my friend instead of her. some yonger women didn't even listen to guy that i were in relationship at one at th time. i did had more bad exerpicnce with yonger women then some guys.

[pjnickles]

You really don't, until he established a track record.

Does he break dates/commitments?
Have you caught him lying?
It he there, at least by phone, if needed?
Does he treat you with respect?
Doss he treat you decently
Does he say one thing and then do another.
Any signs, that would cause you to doubt?

Is a character and integrity thing and he either has it he doesn't. Time will tell.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

not done anything like that yet. only been on two dates so far. i do not understoond other thing you just comment.

[pjnickles]

Character: The mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual

Integrity: The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles

Honor: 1. High respect; great esteem
2. adherence to what is right, or to a conventional standard of conduct:

Ethics: Values relating to human conduct, with respect to the rightness and wrongness of certain actions and to the goodness and badness of the motives

[Jamie05rhs]

Do you mean how to figure out if the guy you already found is decent and respectful?

Well, how has he been so far?

[Lovesims3plumbob]

i that not sure one. only been on two dates.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. Fair enough. Maybe you can continue to give us updates and tell us how things go?

[Jamie05rhs]

But if there are any clues you could give us as to how this guy acts, that would actually be very helpful.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

clue like being friendly, social, eye contracted , ask qestion about what i like and also said i am single and said he is single as well when was vidoe calling him on the second vidoe call

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, I don't see anything bad there. Everything you described about him is good.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

ok. he was the first one to message me on disabled dating.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nice!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Go by his body language and how he carries himself and what language he uses when speaking

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I can't tell with body langauage i always get confused with any human but can see body langauge as cats or dogs just ok. i can sign in BLS. He ask about if i can sign in BLS and Yes i learn when i was in college.

[Wise4myage]

Its gonna take several dates if not longer to figure that out, so don't be a rush.