Guys, how do I find an attractive man who's not emotionally damaged from the previous relationship and ain't messing around?

so im 20, looking for a stable loving relationship, obviously dating apps are useless when you wanna settle for one person. so what do i do, i end up finding breadcrumbers, or those who wanna hook up, not one person who wants to genuinely get to know me take me out on a date or on the same page as me. its frustrating

Guys, how do I find an attractive man who's not emotionally damaged from the previous relationship and ain't messing around?
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