I need a honest man as my boyfriend, can I find that?

[LopezLinda]

Why do I feel everyone Don't want me, all because am a military personnel😔😔

[Rangers]

They exist, you just have to look where you don't expect to find them. I'm far from a good person and I lie all the time in professional settings, but in personal settings I've been described as brutally honest.

Many of us have been discouraged due to no success on dating apps but here, they're all over the place. I met my first girlfriend and then my current girlfriend here.

We've been together 2.5 years now and I don't like to think negatively but if I don't work out, I'll be here to chat!

[DryGermanGuy]

Why would you assume otherwise? If I understood your previous question, you just came out of a relationship? So it’s not like you didn’t have any luck with men. 🤔

With regard to being a military girl, maybe contact user @tweety487 , as she might be in the same boat as you. 🙂

[Dinklex3]

?

Date other military men.

Plenty of them want relationships and are looking for love.

[Dinklex3]

Ooff. Really hope you're not pretending to be military. What's the purpose of that?

[Anonymous]

Honey it’s not because you’re in the military. I was in the Air Force. I’ve know plenty of people who got married in the military. Being a female you’re outnumbered by the men. But if you’re expecting an airman to hit on you it’s tough, everyone had to watch all those sexual harassment training videos and no one wants to risk getting in trouble with their first sergeant.

Maybe try doing some day trips or something with other people from the base. Not sure if they have that in your area but when I was in we’d have trips all over the place. You’re just sitting on a bus meeting other people. Could be an option. Good luck and don’t let it get you down.

[xJeremyx]

They find military women intimidating, for some reason. Or they do not want the long distance/ absence of communication that occurs with deployment.

Sometimes finding a military boyfriend is also an issue, because in my experience, office relationships within the same unit are prohibited.

Thank goodness my conscription period is over. Basic training was the worst part of it all. I did enjoy my time in unit after Basic and Vocational training though.

[Makeushiver]

If you can't th4en they are unobtainable. All you are offering is a type of beauty that is different from what is classically considered beautiful in US but I think you look ravishing and have far more interesting beauty. Honestly.

[Anonymous]

Yes you can, stay positive and be open to approaching guys.

[LopezLinda]

I have been open to them but they are the once not open to me, they are never honest

[schittywok]

You live in a Libtarded area. Period. Stop living in a Dem Ran Shit Hole, stop living in their urban areas. Get some pussy? Some clit? Where as we need to tell a holes to get some ballz? Ramp it up.

[Crafteroon]

Maybe it's because you want to wait until marriage to have sex, and nothing to do with being in the military.

[Guardian45]

I think a lot of people have misgivings about what your job entails, unless they're familiar or comfortable 'serving your country'. Most First Responders understand this concept well. Perhaps stick to these types of individuals.

[Sixgunsound]

Welcome to the club of people who were hated because of serving their country.

[HighValue]

If you are in the military, did they make you take the covid vaccine already?

[HighValue]

And how long do you plan to stay in the military? You can't have a family/kids if you are gone all the time in the military.

[Dinklex3]

You can and people do all the time.

[FilmGuy93]

Honest men are out there. You might need to get out of active duty military though.

[FunkyMonkee]

You sure can, hun but, are you willing to come see me?

[Waldoe]

I am an Army Brat, to bad I am an OLD Army Brat... you will meet the right person, God has a Plan

[Cheerfull009]

I don't like mallitry personal, because they sexually used too much

[Anonymous]

Military women remind many guys of Men and straight guys are attracted to feminine, girly women and NOT men!

[Anonymous]

Because they suspect a catfish

So they don't take it serious

[Anonymous]

What? I would marry you in a heartbeat, you look gorgeous

[burlen]

Of course you can!

[NewsReader]

You are not feminine enough

[exitseven]

My mother was a Marine. She was pretty awesome

[Danny_dan92]

Possibly. Just have to know how to identify one

[Googlemyahoo]

Maybe its because you won’t eat bacon

[Andres77]

I’m sure there’s something they want.

[BLP11520]

I certainly hope so I'm not available 😆 lol

[Anonymous]

Catfish spotted 👀 👀👀