Guys, what does a girl have to do for you to find her interesting?

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ARWINGx1 · Accepted Answer

Now, if pretending that there's one that'd want to be in a relationship with me, and are willing to (at least try to) "change herself" for my sake. (I'm just saying that to simplify/speed up the examples)
(and... aside from shared interests, which is a given to me.)

1. For something that can be seen on the surface: simply an Ambivert (or rather, a "toned down/milder" Introvert/extrovert)
OR, start a conversation with (at least) a notable amount of confidence. And remain calm when I'm still hesitating from shyness.

2. When she'd ask me about something that I'd rather keep secret, but were then convinced otherwise, and If it turned out to be something, say, very kinky... (maybe even beyond that) that would make her feel uncomfortable, she would at least make it clear that she'd blame the both of us equally. (on her end: for bringing that up and not "come prepared" for such a response.) Or I'd take it as being decieved. (or wahatever the right word was)
In other words, Don't make promises unless she's 100% sure on what she said.

3. IF she's the kind that takes commitment seriously, she should never exhibit/"show" ANY form of control over me.
For example: If she'd as much as "propose" something that I "mildly" dislike, and ignores my warnings/"No's". OR, guilt trip me when she doesn't get <something/anything> HER way. Wither of them would be enough for me to (very likely) "instantly" break up with her.

Justerino · Accepted Answer

Honestly @devoygf most relationships I see today fail. Most relationships I see working is two people in the same field, maybe they have the same passion. But the number one thing you can do is do good in school and have a really good job. Having a good job makes a guy think his kids have a higher chance of being well off instead of relying on their parents for support into their adulthood. Just like these nerdy guys from HS turn into rich engineers, so too do the nerdy girls from HS, end up with the loving loyal husband.

ChiTown33 · Answer

1. Be genuine. Don't just pretend to find me interesting. Nobody likes a suck up.
2. Be a caring person. i watch how you treat other people that says a lot about you. When you treat people well and have nothing gain from it, goes a long way with me.
3. Have good morals and family values.
4. I don't care if you have a dollar or a million dollars to your name. But I do care about your views on finances. Money is just a tool to me. But unfortunately a necessary tool. Thrifty women impress me.
5. I don't care if you have a high school education or a doctorate. But represent your intelligence. I find intelligent women attractive. I don't respect women who play their intelligence down to a man's.

Patmedley26 · Answer

For me, I'd think she'd have to be able to stimulate me intellectually. She'd have to be able to challenge my way of thinking as I can be pretty stubborn but I'm working on that lol. I also like girls who take care of themselves physically and are confident in themselves and what they stand for, while at the same time having the propensity to be supportive of my goals and ambitions... but also not being afraid to tell me if I'm being impractical or if I'm out of line.

At the same time, she'd have to not take life too seriously and know when to relax and just live in the moment, or at least be willing to let me help her do that. Be open to constructive criticism as mentioned above.

I get pretty bored easily and value my alone time so she'd have to be able to respect that as well.

Lionman95 · Answer

Something that makes her special, something that´s different from other girls like an own style of clothes, an easy-going character or a special hobby.
Other things I like is intelligence and a woman that has a set of values and can explain why she chose them.

serious · Answer

What a woman has to do for me so that she will come off as interesting?

I don't think it ever works like that. I mean a woman doesn't have to do anything for me unless she herself is willing and interested in doing it. There is no force or obligation.

Yes my expectations will be there and even if the woman is an acquaintance but there will not be any force or pressure.

Phoenix-gb · Answer

It would depend on what context, just for friendship, have some shared interests with me or be passionate enough in their interests that I want to know more.

If it's romantic interest, me romantically interested in me and express it. If someone showed the slightest romantic interest in me they would instantly become the most interesting person to me given how that never happens.

ohshee · Answer

. She just has to be herself that will just prove everything when she's happy she will left when she serious she will be serious when she's loving she will be loving no matter what moment it is it has to be her and she has to be happy I think that's the most beautiful thing ever

Anonymous · Answer

Do?
Breathe.
I tend to like them alive. After that, anything's possible with any woman provided she has a brain and a personality.

Do?
Treat me with respect and care.
Stay true to her word.
Act like a decent human being?

My list of what NOT to do's is longer.

TheBiggestBelieber · Answer

Ok.
You have to behave politely and nicely, and just wear sexy clothing.
Make sure to curl lips and play with hair occasionally.
To be honest, if you are talking about attractive as in sexually, just go ahead and tell the guy.
And, if romantically, chemistry is required, just try to be nice and show manners.

ElvenMr · Answer

Being flirty, not afraid to say things, having fun with the conversation, show your sense of humour. Share your thoughts and experiences on whatever the topic is when you talk with him. If you like the guy's jokes, laugh, don't be afraid to use emojis in text.

Matching personality and sense of humour is great. You can send him random selfies while at home or wherever you are. (non-nude, unless you want to send those lol)
Be confident. Having a good style (clothes).

Mossberg500 · Answer

Engage in intellectual, or simply fun flirty conversation. Seems like a simple task doesn't it? Seems less and less that women can manage. If the man doesn't carry the entire conversation, and make it ALL about her, "she" tends to lose interest. Which in turn loses my interest.

IamAdonis · Answer

Well, seeing as you are 15 .. It’s easy, be interested in things he is interested in.

However, if you are looking for a mature relationship that will last, then: Be yourself!

He will appreciate the fact that you are a unique person!!

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

If you are not anything other truly yourself , it won't attract anyone even if it did it would be just temporary. Enhance yourself in a way you want to be then that will attract the guy

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

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genericname85 · Answer

Just talk to me. If she's a good girl, I'll realize. But if she doesn't talk to me, i may never take note of her.

Dontaaaa · Answer

Literally all a girl has to do for me to find her interesting is to actually give a fuck about me.

Valso · Answer

It's different for everyone. Some like their women dumb as a spoon, others, like me, like their women with a few PhDs. 🤪

IsoUser · Answer

To be perfectly honest just be yourself openly and honestly that's all pretty much any guy asks for.

Juan_Sheet · Answer

For me to be interested in her, she must be interested in me and what i like doing, watching, singing, dancing and working.

Anonymous · Answer

Do for him what he finds interesting. I'm interested in porn so when she wants to get naked or shower with me I find her interesting. I'm interested in horses too so she shows me funny picture of bojack then I like

Hanrej · Answer

Be pretty and explore. I like women that knows the world but sadly I feel most live in their protective bubble of privilages.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Talk with me more eagerly, show her girly side, be kind and not racist. Ask about my likes, hobbies and dislikes etc.

zagor · Answer

Be intelligent, not be self-absorbed, be kind. And be over 15.

Quidthonian · Answer

Be genuinely interested in me. Show her real character. Be slightly shy, but open.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

She just has to be happy and easy to get along with.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Take care of her appearance. That’s about it in high school. As you get older, it’s intelligence.

Juxtapose · Answer

Be able to carry a conversation and have interest that align with mine while also being cute.

andy530 · Answer

Being sexually curious is always a quality I find very interesting in a woman

007kingifrit · Answer

be able to start a conversation and say things not just "yeah"

TrillXHippy · Answer

Act like she’s interested in me for months but it was just a lie

Nebulosity · Answer

I think if she can say something different to what most people say. If she can say something different to the girls around here

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