Why did he leave me for a bad girl?

[Caerd]

My boyfriend left me for a bad girl. Why wsnt i enough for him? I was the good girl career oriented nice respectful, he was pretty much rough and bad and he left me for this bad girl who us bipolar lives pff wellfare does not work and curses at people , emotionally unstable. Why do men like women like that? Why?

[exitseven]

I dated somebody who was the opposite of all the other girls I dated. She probably could be considered the bad girl. I just wanted something different. It lasted a few months and the only time I think about her is when somebody on this site asks this kind of question.
You will get over this and find somebody else.

[IsoUser]

I couldn't even begin to explain why some why some guys do the things they do. All most guys look for in a girl are that she be perfectly honest with them, trustworthy, absolutely gorgeous in their eyes and the ability to be able to trust them. The reason your guy left you I can't honestly answer other than it was some twisted sexual fling that will burn out very soon. All I have ever asked of anyone I was ever with is to be perfectly honest with me and never cheat.

[Daniela1982]

The same reason some girls pass over good, honest, respectable guys for a bad boy who usually treats them like shit (such as Sandra Bullock and Jesse James). Two words sum it up. "They're idiots!"

[SnakeBoop]

some people just don't want that.
shut up and move on. wondering is only causing you distress and making you sound more unstable mentally yourself.

[vapido]

... "he was pretty much rough and bad" - I think you answered your own question!

Seriously, if he is rough and bad, he isn't going to stick around for any girl, regardless of how good or bad she is. Such a man thinks with his penis. He is unable to maintain a serious relationship for more than a few months before his penis inevitably tells his addled brain it is time to ramble on.

If you're attracted to a man with a bit of a bad-boy in him, you're taking a risk of being hurt.

On the other hand, don't 'settle' for someone nice and safe just to avoid being hurt again. If you really do like the excitement that comes with a bad boy, then keep looking for one. Just realize it may take you quite a while to find one who is ready to settle down.

[bamesjond0069]

Its not that men like women like that, the problem is men don't like women like I imagine you are. Career oriented is highly unattractive first and foremost. She also fucks his brains out whenever however he wants never says no and actually keeps him satisfied. This is the top priority in keeping a man. The second you drop the ball with a mans sex life he is looking to move on or he will withdraw from the relationship and just be a shitty boyfriend.

[BaldAvenger]

Your the "Good" girl. Career in full swing, church on Sundays, family time once a week? Am I in the ball park here. He leaves the "Good" for the "Bad" girl. What makes her "Bad"? She does all the nasty, kinky little sex tricks that you won't. Swallows cum, anal, 3-ways? Am I in the ball-park here? I think I just hit a Grand Slam

[Realbanger87]

It's a power dynamic thing. He has no power over you and most likely felt weaker around you. He will have control over this woman since she will be living off him. Also freaky sex.

[PrettyPriya]

I haven't a clue. You seem to have it all put together. To leave someone that is like what you describe doesn't make sense at all to me. Where you having relationship issues?

[Apulu_3]

Well you should be happy that you saw his true colors and a bad person got removed from your life. Don't be sad for weird or unreasonable people :)

[Guccigabbana18]

Sometimes toxic relationships or "bad" girls or boys are more exciting to some people.

[Darine123]

Good girls are boring , naughty and bad girls are better?😂

[fred_durst]

i dont know anything about him
so would just guess , it is probably because she is really hot in bed

[888theGreat]

Beep Beep!

[Tornado92]

Listen up!
He loves the other girl you can't compare control other people's emotions!
It wasn't his choice to okay he likes what he likes.

[Anonymous]

You probably didn’t make him feel wanted and needed enough. The guy other girl obviously needs him more then. Guys like to feel wanted

[Hangry06]

Crazy in head. Crazy in bed

[Iron_Man]

Some guys just want wild sex

[Wise4myage]

She might be kinkier in bed?

[tponderingundead]

because he likes bad girls.

[Kurdistan1991]

İdk.