Why did he leave me for someone else?

[Anonymous]

My now ex left me and like a week or two he got with someone else. It's like our 5 years together meant nothing. During the last days of our relationship he was quiet a couple days. Then he up and broke it off with me, nothing bad was even going on in our relationship. We even went on a vacation. I saw that his new girlfriend posts YouTube videos of them going out of town a lot, more than we ever did. It seems like he's treating her way better than me. I've done so much for him and I don't understand why he would do that to me. It really hurts. I was a good girlfriend to him, never really argued, wasn't problematic, just a chill person. He texted me a couple times after being with her but I just don't want to talk to him ever again.

[InfobotsMom]

Nothing really happens overnight in relationships. If it seems that way then one of you just hasn't seen the signs. This was coming, you just didn't see it or he hid it very well. Don't be fooled by what happens in the early days with him. People often bounce straight into another relationship, it doesn't mean that it will last or that they will be happy and it doesn't mean that what you had didn't count. If it didn't count then it wouldn't have lasted so long. Things just change sometimes, unfortunately.

[Tyler131]

Omg
If this is all true, then I feel absolutely sorry for you :(
I have no idea why anyone would do this...

[Asker]

I don't know myself, he told me he thought I'd make a great wife. It hurts seeing someone you love, love someone better than you.

[Tyler131]

Yes, it hurts so much. This happened to me in November actually :( She had me propose to her and everything. She kept saying she was never happier and that she would never leave me. Then she told me she had feelings for another man... that's when I had to leave her :( 4 years together, but I know I can do much better than her, but it's really hard to find someone

[Asker]

Sorry to hear, I hope you find someone better.

[Tyler131]

I feel worse for you, but I believe we both will find someone better.

[thelittlemermaid333]

Did he ever show signs of being unhappy with you?
U sound like the ideal girlfriend so why would he leave u for?

[Asker]

This one time about money, and a career even though I'm in school and I was in the military but got out because I got injured. For a year he was treating me different. He complained about his job but I suppose it was me.

[thelittlemermaid333]

So it basically centred around money then? He wanted u to bring a bigger income?

[Dkc123]

May he wanted something more or was not happy..!

[Asker]

Probably so