I’ve been talking to a guy for 6 months. He lives in another state but his family is here and he comes back frequently to visit. We met in person once for lunch and have stayed in touch. Communication has been flirty and romantic and we talk almost daily, he sends me photos of him and replies to my stories and photos. A month ago he told me he’s planning to move to my city permanently when his lease ends in a couple months and he wants to see me more. I took this as a good sign that he was letting me know he’s moving and that he wants to see me in person. I was on vacation last week and he was commenting gorgeous on my photos and asking how my trip was. Then a few days ago he posts photos on his stories of him with a girl and I was caught so off guard. Clearly it was a date and he had his arm around her. I got so sad I sent him an emotional text saying that I must have misinterpreted the past few months and that I thought he liked me especially telling me he was moving and wanted to see me more. I also said I liked him and seeing that photo hurt my feelings because I was caught so off guard and didn’t expect it at all. I told him he didn’t need to respond and that I was going to leave him alone and wished him well. I guess I was hoping he’d realize how much I liked him and respond. He read the message 2 hours later, no response and it’s been 4 days. I stopped looking at his stories so I didn’t see more photos of them but he still looks at mine and he even has hearted a few. One was a gym selfie of me in leggings and a sports bra (why would he like this if dating someone?) I’m so confused what this means. We’ve been talking almost daily for months, he was moving near me, now I don’t even get a response to my message? Why would he heart my stories without acknowledging the message? If he didn’t like me then wouldn’t he just not like them? Why would he call me gorgeous if he was talking to someone else? Will he come back? Should I text him? I don’t know what to do.
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