Guys, Hi. A guy I talked to for a while wants to try us dating. We went on a date and after that he no longer has time to meet. Thoughts?

[AdrianaCira09]

So, to clarify some things: I knew this guy for a while and we are acquaintances in real life, before we started talking online more. I tried to propose things to do together and he says he has a lot of work and does not have time. But he goes out with his friends. The date was good, we went out to eat and we talked. I am trying to understand why this change happened. He wanted to try and now he lost interest. And when I asked about it he kept saying he wants to try. But unless I write to home, he will not reach out.

[caring__1]

It's not uncommon for people to create fantasies in their head. Sometimes we're disappointed when these fantasies don't mesh with reality. This is about his preferences and has nothing to do with you, so don't take it personally. If he was interested, he' make time to stay connected. Just pass on this opportunity and move on to someone who truly appreciates you as you are.

[spartan55]

He went on a date with you and didn't feel it. Now instead of being honest he's playing keep away from you.

[boobliker]

he is a dork to do that! he should have the time to tell you why...

[Lokiion]

He just doesn’t like you anymore

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he’s not interested