Guy's Behavior

Does this guy like me? Or does he just want to sleep with me? Or neither?

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So I met this guy I went to high school with. He didn’t know me in school but I knew of him.

For context, we’re both 24. He lives close by and a few weeks ago he asked me if I wanted to for a drive. Before that, he kept asking to go drive ins to watch a movie or something but I always had a lot going on in life.

Anyway fast forward months later, I was down to go for a drive, not knowing what it really meant. We were just talking and this was end of June. Since then, every two weeks or so he’ll ask if I want to go for a drive.


He’s been a little touchy since the first time I saw him and it got way more after the second time. He plays with my hair a lot and gives me head scratches so maybe it’s just innocent? But he has started touching my thigh and doing that guy thing where they rub it with their thumb. I don’t know if I’m reading too much into this. This only happened like once but he’ll still put his hand there once in a while

Sometimes he’ll massage my shoulders or go down my back. He’s held me by the waist and pulled me in. It’s all these random things and I don’t know, maybe he doesn’t like me at all and just wants to sleep with me? Or maybe he just wants affection? I don’t even know if he’s attracted to me. He’s cool to talk to but it’s just confusing. Every time I’ve seen him I’ve emphasised how we’re friends too so I don’t know.

For more context, he works full time and has a good but busy job. In the last few weeks he’s stopped using his social media and barely goes on his phone. We use to text but since seeing him we more so only talk then. I also work two jobs and have a lot going on so I’m not really phased to be chatting constantly.

Any opinions would be appreciated

Does this guy like me? Or does he just want to sleep with me? Or neither?
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