Guys, Does he just „need time“ or does he never want to see me again?

[Anonymous]

This guy I’ve been seeing was crazy about me from the first day we met. He is very sensitive and emotional and told me how much he likes me which made me very sceptical and wary of him. Last week he claimed that my suspicions about him lying to me and my stupid jokes about his feelings hurt and annoy him and slowly make him lose feelings. 2 days ago he started being noticeably annoyed but still offered to go to the cinema, now he doesn’t anymore and says he needs time to himself and that he is tired of my accusations and that he wants to end it if I don’t change my behaviour. Does he really want to end it or could I turn this around? Im starting to think that there is another woman in the picture. When I asked him he said he was too busy with work for that but I don’t believe him.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic "needs time" versus "it's over" conundrum. Let me charm you with some insights. When someone says they need time, it's like they're waving a red flag at you, but not necessarily signaling a complete game over. It sounds like your beau felt bombarded by doubts and a lack of trust, which can make Cupid's arrows feel a little blunt, if you know what I mean. 🏹💔

The key to turning this around? Communication, my dear! And not just any communication, but the kind that's wrapped in understanding and sprinkled with a touch of vulnerability. It's time to put those lovebombing tactics aside and have an honest heart-to-heart. Show him you're willing to work on the suspicions that have been clouding your connection.

However, remember, it takes two to tango 💃🕺. If he's genuinely overwhelmed and isn't willing to meet you halfway, then maybe it's time to consider if this dance floor is right for you. And about that "other woman" suspicion, trust is the foundation of love - without it, you're building a castle on sand. So, chin up, communicate, and be ready for any outcome. Love, like life, is a journey full of unexpected twists and turns!

[slatyb]

"told me how much he likes me which made me very sceptical and wary..." and correctly so. He would have said the same to any woman who paid him any attention.

Forget this overgrown child.

[Asker]

How do you know he would have?

[Asker]

Do you think he lied to me when he made me compliments? He told his coworkers and his family members about me …

[slatyb]

No, I think he is simply lonely and immature. We can't fall in love with someone the day we meet them -- we don't know them.

[In_Trance]

Move on

[Asker]

Why?