Why did he left me for another girl?

[berrybutter]

My boyfriend left me for another girl actually he secretly started flirting with her when he was with me that is considered cheating right? I was so loyal to him when i was with him, our affair lasted for 1.5 years. by the way even he is not mine anymore im still loyal to him i dnt even talk to any guys i stoped talking to guys interacting with guys since i dated him. I always have to go to classes where there are plenty of boys but i dont even look at them. I still can't understand the reason why he left me i truly loved him and he knows it he also said a week before officially dating his new girlfriend that he won't find someone like me in his entire life time again and there's no one matches to me in the whole world but he still can't come back to me he is stucked. I let him go but i need the reason he didn't mention it. Is she prettier than me? she maybe pretty but im not ugly too not being bourstful lots of girls compliment me as their 1st impression and many boys many means a lot have crush on me seeing me pretty, they are like im every boys dream girl. Does she have a better body than me? She is a so skinny literally unhealthy skinny im not discriminating her and i usually have the body according to worldwide beauty standards again not criticizing her i just want the reason why he chosed her over me. And educationally wise after few years im becoming a doctor and her she even failed the easiest exam usually people with lowest iq levels get even a pass in here. Character wise she has a really bad character had multiple relationships and even has cheated in those affairs, eveybody says that she is a h*e. She also new that he had a girlfriend when she also flirted with him. And all his friends say leaving me for is the dumbest thing he did and someday he'll regret it and come back to me. They say that he left a diamond in search of gold. I'm suffering a lot here even its not my loss its been months i still can't get over him. Im planning not do date anyone ever.

Updates

7 mo

guys dont be harsh i asked you guys if any of you had faced or facing a similar situation so you can give a guess about why did he left me, since i dont know the reason i feel guilty if something is wrong with me. Lately i got diagnosed with epilepsy too. So im just so fed up with everything dealing with health, medical entrance exam and this breakup. Pls i need some advic

[ohsheeT]

OK wait wait waitttt. first of all stop talking bad about yourself. . Just with reading your words I can tell you
You are beautiful

You have a beautiful heart. Your kind your giving your passionate your a cuddle bug and you would be a best friend. There is nit one thing wrong with you. So stop all that talk

You have to look at this in a couple different ways
First this is on him tbh. I will tell you right now he messed up. You are the girl that every guy is looking for

OK so sometimes in life we think we meant the person of a life time. But then there is a break up

First of all you can't like him any more because he just proved to you who he truly is

Now you would think the girl he is with wouldn't want to date a guy like that. Because if he did it to you he does it to everyone
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The other thing I look at you as being that girl. And our God your angel s. New what type of guy he is they said no no no we are breaking this up right now

When things like this happen it breaks your heart but i will promise you one day you would like to just look at the internet and say thank you because I meant the guy of my dreams

Because I guarantee you this guy's gonna even want to try to come back and you better not you better not say yes because he'll just do it again

The moment that girl finds out exactly who he is , she's gonna say bye and guess where he's gonna go right to not miss , he found somebody else already

But that's your learning experience if you say yes you're gonna have to learn it all over again because you will do it again

But I believe there is a greater intervention going on there , just not meant to be with that guy , you're too good for him

[berrybutter]

Awww Thank you so much for your comment this means a lot🥺❤You are right. Now i should focus on myself and face my exam well first. But i won't get into a new relationship any quicker until every bit of love for him in my heart drains. Bcz i dont wanna hurt who meets me next.

[ohsheeT]

That's good way to look at it but you have to understand that love that you feel is the love with in you it's your love it's who you are it will never drain because the love that you have for you first

[ChicoFromThe305]

If he's not with you anymore stop being loyal to him, and even if you are with him you should break up and find some else, your time is being wasted with this person.

[berrybutter]

im trying to

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cool, best of luck

[AvaRay]

😏 agree with u my little gorilla ass brother.. 👊🏻🦍

[ChicoFromThe305]

That goes for you too 😂

[AvaRay]

Sometimes a man doesn’t leave cause she’s better, he leaves cause he’s weaker..

Some men can’t handle a woman who’s loyal, grounded, n emotionally deep, so they run to someone easier, someone who doesn’t challenge their character..

U weren’t replaced cause u lacked anything, u were replaced cause he lacked maturity..

Let him chase illusions, while u continue to become everything he can never hv again.. 🥂

[berrybutter]

yes maybe he is immature, he always said that im immature but after what he did it says how immature he is. She is an easy women she only dates someone who is rich and handsome, for benefits.

[AvaRay]

Exactly, maturity isn’t measured by words, but by actions..

N those who chase convenience over character ll never recognize true value when it’s right in front of them..

[FreyaRed]

They come only back when you don't want them back. Well, you wanted him back.
Otherwise it might sound harsh but don't make too big drama out of it, because most people lost someone they loved and some even killed (metaphoric) their love because of many reasons. People come and people go, this is the way of life.

[Seangreen]

I'm going to say because your English grammar is not the best

[berrybutter]

im a Asian dealing with a lot right now i dont have time to make my grammar better but i will

[Seangreen]

My comment really wasn't to criticize your English, it was to make me sound like an asshole mostly to get a reaction from other people, so they think I'm a jerk. In reality it was wrong of me to do that at your expense

[Abbycado]

How are we supposed to know why he left you? Sorry, I can't read other people's minds.

[SueShe]

Here, to increase your lousy MHO status 🤭

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[Abbycado]

Woohoo! You are the second person to come to my aid to boost that garbage MHO percentage.

[SueShe]

👍👍👍

[Abbycado]

I'd like to know what AbbyAi's MHO is. Hmm, I presume, perfection.

[slatyb]

Don't worry about it. His reason isn't important, and it's not your fault. Lots of fish in the sea.

[Anonymous]

how would we know who's better looking without pics?

[OneViewpoint]

Is he left handed?

[MasterKS]

She must be better than you.

[berrybutter]

okay thank you for the comment🙂

[MasterKS]

@berrybutter Dont mind, its a bitter truth.

[berrybutter]

from what aspects? by beauty... i dnt think so im a very insecure person about myself the way im looking but i can guarantee that im way more better than her in face and body. Education and dependency.. she is uneducated, she is not into education and depends on family and boyfriend. I'm independent and after few years im gonna be a doctor. Relationship history and loyalty.. she has a very bad history and had cheated multiple times, she cheated her boyfriend while dating boyfriend's own brother. And this is my first relationship. so what do you mean?

[berrybutter]

*by dating

[MasterKS]

@berrybutter i need to explain a bit here, better be in private, followed.

[Anonymous]

I left a plain girl for a hot one. It was a great decision for me.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he likes her better.

[Anonymous]

Someone sounds bitter.

[In_Trance]

Tldr