Is “you can get any guy yo want “ phrase a true statement?

[736_switch_blade]

My therapist told me this. And shit no girl I couldn’t get the guy I wanted because he didn’t want me. Neither did the other. Fuck that’s lying to me. That means I’m not good enough for him.

[TonyV]

Your therapist said that? Is your therapist a man or a woman?
Yeah no I wouldn't say that. I doubt you could get Jason Manmohan.
Yeah girls have a lot more options, have way more partners to chose from then dudes in the dating game, but garentee to be able to get your absolute #1 top pick, guy you want the most? No that's unrealistic advice. You look pretty good, should have quiet a few to pick from but its very rare to get exactly what/who you want. It don't even mean you aren't good enough, dude just might want a different type. And if you already tried I don't know why your therapist would push you to keep pursuing that guy.
I hope your therapist is trying to ingrained confidence, if you go in more with confident in yourself with the next guy its more likely to work out.

[736_switch_blade]

From what I saw in his social media he likes girls that are less attractive than me.

[TonyV]

Why do you say they are less attractive?
Are they all similar looking?

[736_switch_blade]

I thought they were going to have these amazing bodies. But they don’t. They just have ass. And not cute in the face.

[TonyV]

So what do you like better about your body?
What would you call your body type? And what would you call theirs? Other than just asses lol

And shouldn't it make you feel better that you find yourselves more attractive than them? So it's not like you lost the competition, shouldn't it help get over him if he just has bad taste.

[KevVickinz]

Most girls can get any guy they want, cos guys are attracted to 90% of girlsAnd we want girls we are attracted to. I mean it doesn't apply to all girls but as a general rule of thumb girls can usually get any guy they like

[KevVickinz]

Maybe your standards are too high above your own league?
maybe go for a little less than perfect guy who isn't a stud/chad

[KevVickinz]

Or maybe you jus chose the wrong guy

[736_switch_blade]

You think my standards are too high. Have you seen me?

[KevVickinz]

I don't know but if you're going for 7/10 or below guys there should never be a problem, unless the guy is gay or something

[KevVickinz]

U look pretty hot to me so looks can't be a problem

[KevVickinz]

Also no I wasn't saying your standards are high but most girls go for 10/10 guys only so I think that's why these taken studs dont want anyone cos they already taken

[736_switch_blade]

This guy wasn’t a 10 let me tell you

[KevVickinz]

Hmmm. Maybe he was gay lol

[KevVickinz]

I'd go out with you you look hot 😘

[736_switch_blade]

Dm me

[SlothySlob]

Realistically, no you can't get any guy you want. Some of them are married, some of them are gay. That's just a bullshit statement to make you feel better. Similar to a mother saying to her kid that they are handsome/gorgeous.

[Themostabsurd]

No, its a harmful platitude we tell young women and definitely untrue. Good on you for seeing through it. Many women believe it, artificially inflating both their expectations and their view of themselves. Obviously you can't have any guy you want. That's why you're getting angry in a therapist's office instead of banging Ryan Reynolds.

[736_switch_blade]

Ryan Reynolds’s is hot

[Anonymous]

It means your dating options are not being restricted by your appearence.

Obviously you still have to have compatible personalities, morals, politics, agendas etc.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Maybe, but the wrong version of that is “you can get any Kind of guy you want”. Omega LoL. It was supposed to be funny buts kinda true,

[TallAnon]

Nope and you should probably find a different therapist.

[736_switch_blade]

Why? Because she is lying to me?

[TallAnon]

Yes, it's just factually not true. There's gay dudes, dudes with ptsd, emotional unavailable dudes, dudes that are into weird shit like animals and fat women.

But most of all, telling you that has no use and her failing to understand that is really bad. Telling someone with anxiety "don't be anxious" is just as helpful.

[736_switch_blade]

It’s really hard to be a therapist I can imagine. Some people are not born to tell others how to guide their life.

[TallAnon]

Agreed, but that just means you need to find someone better

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yo, what you payin a therapist for what your mufuckin ass can get for free? Shit!

[Anonymous]

maybe you were too much for him , he had performance issues. I would say look at all that good stuff , hope I am up to it.

[736_switch_blade]

Good stuff was that I wasn’t dating him. Officially. I had sex with him only once. Didn’t get pregnant.

[Opinion Owner]

I mean you bending over in front of him

[736_switch_blade]

What? Dude

[rebeliouse]

false no one can get anyone they want

[736_switch_blade]

I think this is true

[rebeliouse]

@736_switch_blade
just like i prob can't get u to dm me :D

[rebeliouse]

@736_switch_blade
wow you have stunning lips :D

[Anonymous]

Girl you need to relax.

[736_switch_blade]

Why? Boy

[Opinion Owner]

You’re too serious, you gotta chill. You seem so aggro.

[736_switch_blade]

I don’t live a happy life

[Opinion Owner]

What’s wrong with it? Mine isn’t exactly perfect either, but I get through the day pretty well.

[Anonymous]

Lots of people can't be with the person they want.

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