If guys only want friends with benefits from me, am I not attractive enough for them to date?

[Anonymous]

I'm a teenager. Every guy that approaches me only wants friends with benefits and not a relationship. Why is this so? Am i not pretty enough?

[ohshee]

I wish I had more information have you slept with a lot of guys if so then it has gone around that you sleep with guys it so every guy that hears that is going to try to get into your pants using the term friends with benefits is just a ploy it's actually that they're using you I'm sure you're very beautiful otherwise they wouldn't be trying to get into your pants but if they can do it for free and not have to date you or anything like that what do you think they're going to do what you need to do is just back off with all of you guys for a while that way there's no more rumors that way there's no more guys telling other guys who they're screwing and then those guys want to try to find out if they can do it too

[Asker]

Actually no, I'm not that sort of girl

[ohshee]

That's good you dont want to be known as that girl either because it follows you everywhere.
I wasn't paying attention to your age but if you're in high school or even College guys just want to get laid here's the worst part let's pretend that you said okay you're going to get you in bed you're going to be done in 2 minutes they're going to get dressed mess around a little bit and then make an excuse for they have to go and you would still be laying there saying what just happened did we do anything LOL and he's already on the phone calling his friends telling them what a stud he is because he just got done fucking you that's the reason why guys do that they want to be a big shot a big stud and they didn't do anything the more a guy can get a girl into bed the moment it happens 2 minutes later everybody knows it all they want to do is brag the more girls a guy gets. The more the guy who wants to keep doing what he's doing so it's cool that you don't fall for that bullshit

[ChrisMaster69]

I would really ignore the entire casual side of things, it’s nothing to do with looks, attraction etc, it’s simply guys looking for easy sex.

Do not let them use the ‘well if you were pretty, I would date you’ card.

Also watch out for any ‘agreeing’ to date you, then they expect sex on date 2,3 etc, as chances are they will drop you once sex box ticked.

It’s typical shaming tactics to get in to a Girls pants.

They just want easy no strings sex, ignore them and it’s nothing to do with being pretty, looks, etc.

[sissyalexa]

You are probably beautiful, honestly the way guys are isn't on you! Maybe just think about the kind of guys you're going for, a selfish guy will only ever want friends with benefits because he just wants to do what he wants 😊

[UniquelyBasic]

Your interacting with kids who want to act cool and think its lame to actually care about what someone has to offer besides their looks. Dont think about it too deeply as its not worth wasting energy on.

[Now_Here]

This^

[Kiss_Me]

Blow them off. The friends with benefits thing gives a guy a way to get sex without dating.

Find a quality guy. Remember, relationship first, sex second.

[Lionman95]

No necessarily. They are just not ready for a relationship but instead are playing around and wanna make experiences where they have sex but no responsibility.

[noohair]

Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex.
Women wanted equality and freedom.
This is the unintended consequence.
Don't be a sperm receptacle.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

It's because the boys are not mature enough for you.

[jahaims]

No, most guys your age are looking for sex not relationships

[Wise4myage]

Not necessarily, you are probably just meeting the wrong guys.

[PL2022]

Maybe you are, but they only see your curves. Are you offering more?

[Anonymous]

No it’s just that you offer them nothing but your body.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Don't take it personal, dudes just be horny smh

[Totenkopf88]

Don't go after goofies you goofy

[johnnygodeep]

No, your just easy enough and give it up to soon…

[Anonymous]

The fuck is wrong with you